The author recalls her life at fourteen. ? At that time,she was such a sensitive and self-abasement girl.She thought she was an ugly duckling and no one would love her or made friends with her.She felt a little bit self-loathing.But nowadays she understood that it was one part of her life no matter how bad she behave at that time.

? ?From the book, I know that we ought to let go the bad memories and accept ourselves .Just raise your head up and go ahead.