Move with the cheese and enjoy it
你永遠不會知道什么地點什么時刻就會遇到改變你一生的一件事或者一本書。就像我今天看到的這本《誰動了我的奶酪》Who moved my cheese一樣，也像變化一樣，你不確定它會什么時候到來，其實它一直都在，只有你做好準備，用勇敢的心去面對，那樣你才能更加從容。
這是我讀的第一本純英文書，用時4小時26分。圣誕寒假，在uptown?的圖書館貓著，外面飄著從早一直在下的雪，來著大姨媽，喝著保溫杯里的紅糖水，內(nèi)心滿滿的喜悅感。寫這篇讀后感的時候，其實圖書館已經(jīng)關門，我坐在一樓室內(nèi)的噴泉旁邊，水的聲音讓我不想再去聽歌。讀這本書的時候按照透析方法記下了每兩頁找到的一個英文單詞，并且記錄了很多的優(yōu)美句子。但是更多的是我關于本書內(nèi)容的觸動吧。
書中的主人公4個：2只老鼠Sniff?Scurry 2?個little people Hem ,Haw.但是確代表了不同的四個性格。不知道你會是哪種性格的呢？我想很多時候我相識scurry ,會聽話照做。但是在這之前我也有Haw?的特征，我敢于接受挑戰(zhàn)，并且快速調(diào)整。你呢？
The quicker you let go of old cheese, the sooner you find new cheese.說起變化，可能大家都會避之不談，尤其是在工作中的一些老人，呆在舒適區(qū)太長時間，一旦有變化就會讓他們不停抱怨，而且會聯(lián)合同伴的力量一起抵抗，給企業(yè)的變革造成很大的負擔。在讀這個故事的時候我就特別感同身受到為什么老東家——一個產(chǎn)品100多年歷史之久的公司在4年前提出了擁抱變化，這和書中講到的話語和發(fā)放如出一轍，就好似決策成看了這本書之后才制定了計劃。我也能清楚的記得擁抱變化的口號提出之后公司進行大的變革，政策調(diào)整、財務收縮、裁員，大家都很惶恐，很多人都在抵制，可是在大的趨勢下我們?nèi)匀荒芸吹椒e極鮮活的群體撐起了大半邊天。那些不去接受變化的人，最終只能選擇離開。而如今看來，經(jīng)受變化，并且調(diào)整心態(tài)積極融入的人就像Ham那樣，現(xiàn)在的工作如日中天。面對變化還有一些人會猶豫不決，非得等到不得不的時候才開始勉強接受，可是如果經(jīng)常保持一顆接受變化的心，在事情已經(jīng)變化，所有結(jié)果還可以被簡單扭轉(zhuǎn)的時候為什么非等到帶來巨大損失之后才去彌補呢？一切要趁早。
When you stop being afraid, you feel good.有時候我們發(fā)現(xiàn)了變化，是的，我們想去改變，但是確沒有膽量，我們會和自己對話，問自己在擔心什么，問自己最壞的結(jié)果是什么。然后始終不愿意離開舒適區(qū)，可是變化已經(jīng)在那里，一味像hem?那樣等在那里，不接受變化，覺得誰動了自己的利益？不應該啊，那就是我的，憑什么沒有了？我就要一直等。這樣的人不就像是個巨嬰么？最終只會餓死自己。可是，親愛的，當你決定去改變的時候，你可以問問自己what would you do if you weren’t afraid?，再想一想這些恐懼最壞的結(jié)果。之前看過一個測試，讓一群人把自己心里擔憂的糟糕的事情都寫下來，過了一段時間當事情發(fā)生過后，人們對比才發(fā)現(xiàn)，他們擔心的事情并沒有發(fā)生，而發(fā)生的事情并沒有他們想象中的糟糕. What you are afraid of is never as bad as what you imagine.所以，很多時候我們不要總給自己的心理設限，覺得未來渺茫，充滿阻撓，是的未來可能是黑暗的，但是那只是因為你看不到前面的光明和平坦，所以猜測。而往往當你克服恐懼走出去之后你會發(fā)現(xiàn)機會就在那里等你。像haw?一樣，他想起了自己原來是多么快樂，那時他一直在找尋cheese的路上，雖然有碰壁，但是尋找的過程總是讓他很開心?？墒怯辛顺圆煌甑腸heese之后他就停止找尋，然后就忘記了最初的快樂。你可以回想自己初心，不忘初心，方得始終。當你不再害怕，你就會心里有方向，專一去做一件事，那種感覺給你帶來的動力，是無窮的。所以深呼吸，大膽向前走吧。
Imagining yourself enjoying your new cheese Leads you to it.當讀到haw?想象自己周圍有吃不完的各種好吃的，想象自己未來的美好時，我分明感受到這就是在時間管理課程中老師講到的愿景啊，在幫助我們圓夢的課程中，老師讓我們想象實現(xiàn)夢想的那一刻，越具體越好，越有畫面感越好。比如我在跑馬拉松的時候，堅持不下去，想要放棄的時候，就在想到達終點之后我可以完美得秀朋友圈，我完成了挑戰(zhàn)。我可以吃很多的好吃的，可以被朋友家人夸贊，可以……讓愿景來引領我們前進，這就是夢想成真吧。
其實讀完這本書中的故事還沒有結(jié)束，最后一部分，同學聚會的討論讓我受益很大，學到了如何把故事應用在現(xiàn)實中。確實，它不僅可以用在工作中、在處理人際關系、追求夢想、錢財管理等等方面都適用。只是心血來潮把想法簡單記錄了下來，它值得回味，值得多次閱讀，每次都會有新的發(fā)現(xiàn)吧。
謹以此文獻給自己的閱讀的第一篇英文書，然后開啟我的閱讀計劃……
The quicker you let go of old cheese, the sooner you find new cheese.
1\ Having cheese makes you happy
2\The more important your cheese is to you ,the more you want to hold on to it
3\Ife you do not change, you can become extinct.
4\ what would you do if you weren’t afraid?
5\Smell the cheese often so you know when it is getting old.
6\Movement in a new direction helps you find new cheese.
7\When you stop being afraid, you feel good.
8/Imagining yourself enjoying your new cheese Leads you to it.
9\The quicker you let go of old chesse, the sooner you find new cheese.
10\It is safer to search in the Maze, Than remain in a cheeseless situation
11\ old beliefs do not lead you to new cheese.
12\when you see that you can find and enjoy new cheese, you chage course
13\ Noticing small chages early helps you adapt to the bigger changes that are to come.
?Summary:
Change happens: to keep moving the cheese
Anticipate change: get ready for the cheese to move
Monitor change: Smell the cheese often so you know when it is getting old
Adapt to change quickly: The quicker you let go old cheese, the sooner you can enjoy new cheese
Change: Move with the Cheese
Enjoy change: savor the adventure and enjoy the taste of new cheese
Be ready to change quickly and enjoy it again& again: They keep moving the cheese
P39 They didn’t think of anything else but finding new cheese.
P45 sometimes, Hem, things change and they are never the same again. This looks like one of those tomes. That’s life! Life moves on. And so should we.
P49 He knew sometimes some fear can be good ,when you are afraid things are going to get worse if you don’t do something. It can prompt you into action .Bute it is not good when you are so afraid that it keeps you from doing anything.
P55 But he was discovering what nourished his soul.
P57 The more clearly he saw the image of himself enjoying new Cheeses, the more real and believable it become. He could sense that he was ging to find it. Imaging yourself enjoying your new cheese. Leads you to it.
P60 The Quicker you let go of old cheese. The sooner you find new cheese.?
P61 Just realizing he was not letting his fear stop him, and knowing that he had taken a new direction, nourished him and gave him strength.
P63 What you are afraid of is never as bad as what you imagine. The fear you let build up in your mind is worse that the situation that actually exists.
P63 It was natural for change to continually occur, whether you except it or not.?
?His old thinking had been clouded by his worries and fears.
P65 when you change what you believe, you change what you do.?
You can believe that finding new cheese will help you and embrace the change.
P68 Noticing small changes early helps you adapt to the bigger changes that are to come.
P70 The fasest way to change is to laugh at your own folly_then you can let go and quickly move one.
P71 He reflected on the mistakes he had made in the past and used them to plan for his future.
P71 He needed to adapt faster, for if you do not adapt in time, you might as will not adapt at all.
He had to admit that the biggest inhibitor to change lies within yourself, and that nothing gets better until you change.
Hem had to find his own way, beyond his comforts and past his fears . No one else could do it for him or talk him into it.
He knew it was safer to be aware of his real choices than to isolate himself in his comfort zone.
P80 How many here are afraid of change? How about a show of hands?
How many here think other people are afraid of change?
P82 It’s not just that they moved the cheese but that the “cheese”has a lift of its own and eventually runs out. Competitor technological change.
P88 the new cheese is a new relationship with the same person. Repeating the same behavior will just get you the same results.
P89 Instead of changing job, I should be changing the way I am doing my job.
P91 A change imposed is a change opposed.
P92 After they got past their fear. They told me the best thing was realizing that there was new cheese out there just warning to be found.
P18 Everyone knows that not all changes is good or even necessary. But in a world that is constantly changing. It is our advantage to learn how to adapt and enjoy something better.
Move with the cheese.
