When my friends askd me:" why are you still single?" I had a feeling that I was the most pathetic person in this world. If I had the answer, I wouldn't give them the chance to ask me this question. But I've been trying to figure it out. Then I come to realize that I really treasure my "single time".
Being single means that you will have more flexible time. You can fix your time according to your own plan rather than your boyfriend's or girlfriend's. For example, if you are late for your date, your girlfriend may get angery at you and stop talking to you for days. Or you may unfortunately be that girlfriend. But it never happens when you are single.
Being single means that you have to learn to be independent. You have to carry you bags when getting on the train. You have to keep your umberalla with you all the time. Because no one will come to pick you up when it rains. You have to train yourself to be a handyman or a handywoman when the bulb goes off, the pipe get stucked, the computer breaks down. Is there anything you can't do if you are single?
Besides, being single is the best excuse for being lazy. You can stay at home without doing cleaning or lauduaring. You can go for a dinner without make-ups or dress-ups. And? you don't have to worry about whether your haircut is funny or not. You can defend yourself against all the doubts with the perfect answer "I am single".
When I find out that I am not the only one forgotten by Cupid, I am so assured and relieved. But when I imagine that I may stay single for the rest of my life, I am so scarred and terrified. But I do think that love is not born of neccessity but of right timing. And I turly believe that everyone here will find your Mr./Ms.Right in the near future.
Thank you!
這簡直是一篇啪啪打臉的speech...
事到如今，大四汪還是很羨慕擁有一份愛情的。每次看到身邊的情侶們PDA，我想的竟然是：哇，好甜啊，甜死我了！然后開始自動冒粉色泡泡。。。她們的秀恩愛日常增加了我對愛情的向往，會覺得愛情真是件美好的事情。尤其是一個人單身久了，會不知道談戀愛的感覺。
我知道，談戀愛會很開心很甜蜜，但我不知道會有多開心。但是好像也沒到為此焦慮的地步，因為人生還有好多重要的事情等著去完成。這種對愛情的向往和感慨很快會被忙碌的生活和糟糕的工作給取代。說到底，這類牢騷就是閑的，忙起來誰還有時間風(fēng)花雪月阿，早把時間埋在被子里呼呼大睡了。
2017.04.25
