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11個(gè)壞習(xí)慣背后的原因:
如果你的孩子總是故意打擾你,其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟愫退狈χw接觸,缺乏親密感。
如果你的孩子撒謊,其實(shí)這說(shuō)明你曾經(jīng)對(duì)他犯過(guò)的錯(cuò)誤反應(yīng)過(guò)度。
如果你的孩子缺乏自信心,其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟阃鶅A向于告訴他們?cè)趺醋?,而非鼓?lì)他們自己做。
如果你的孩子不敢捍衛(wèi)自己的權(quán)利,其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟阍谒麄冃r(shí)候總是在公開(kāi)場(chǎng)合訓(xùn)斥他們。即使是在兄弟姐妹、朋友、表親面前也不該這么做。
如果你什么東西都給孩子買(mǎi),但他們依舊去拿那些不屬于他們的東西,這其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟悴蛔屗麄冏约哼x擇想要的東西。
如果你的孩子很懦弱,那其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟憧偸窃谒麄冇龅嚼щy時(shí)就立刻幫忙。不要把孩子成長(zhǎng)道路上的每個(gè)障礙都掃清。
如果你的孩子嫉妒心很重,那可能是因?yàn)槟憧偸悄脛e的孩子和他們比較。
如果你的孩子很容易生氣,那其實(shí)是因?yàn)槟憬o他們的贊揚(yáng)不夠,他們只能靠做些失禮的事來(lái)吸引你的注意力。
如果你的孩子不會(huì)尊重別人的感受,那是因?yàn)槟憧偸敲钏麄?,是因?yàn)槟悴蛔鹬厮麄兊母惺堋?/p>
如果你的孩子總是神神秘秘的,什么都不告訴你,那是因?yàn)槟憧偸菒?ài)打擊他們。
如果你的孩子總是行為粗魯沒(méi)禮貌,那其實(shí)是從家長(zhǎng)或者身邊的人那里學(xué)來(lái)的。
The reason what do you had 11 bad habits .
If your kid always disturb you intentionaliy , the reason is you and he lack of touth and? a sense of intimacy .
If your kid lied , the reason is you used to beoverreaction when he made a mistake .
If your kid lack of self-confidence , the reason is you always like tell them how to do , not encourage them by their hands .
If your kid dare not defend own title , the reason is you rebuke them in public place when they was young . Even the people around them is their brothers and sisters 、friends and relatives .
If you buy anything to your kid and they still take stuff which not belong to them , the reason is you bar them choice the stuff they really want .
If your kid is coward , the reason is you help them at once when they had a trouble . Don't clean up every obstacle on the road which let kid grow up .
If your kid usually is jealous of others , the reason is you let he compared with other kid .
If your kid usually become angry , the reason is you didn't gave encouragement enough , they just did something bad let you attention them .
If your kid don't respect people's feeling , the reason is you always order them , you don't respect their feeling .
If your kid became mystical , didn't told you anything , the reason is you always hit them .
If your kid had boorishness behavior and impolite?, actually they learned from parents .