一度非常喜歡一首歌《only love 》,每次單曲循環(huán)都能聽好久。
Two.a.m.and the rain is falling
Here we are at the crossroads once again
You're telling me you're so confused
You can't make up your mind
Is this meant to be
You're asking me
But only love can say try again or walk away
But I believe for you and me
The sun will shine one day
So I'll just play my part
Pray you'll have a change of heart
But I can't make you see it through
That's something only love can do
In your arms as the dawn is breaking
Face to face and a thousand miles apart
I've tried my best to make you see
There's hope beyond the pain
If we give enough - if we learn to trust
But only love can say - try again or walk away
But I believe for you and me
The sun will shine one day
So I'll just play my part
Pray you'll have a change of heart
But I can't make you see it through
That's something only love can do
I know if I could find the words
to touch you deep inside
You'd give our dream just one more chance
Don't let this be our last goodbye
But only love can say - try again or walk away
But I believe for you and me
The sun will shine one day
So I'll just play my part
Pray you'll have a change of heart
But I can't make you see it through
That's something only love can do
That's something only love can do
愛不是錦上添花或者委曲求全的討好跪舔，看新人笑容易，看舊人哭而依然有憐惜之心，卻不易。
我經(jīng)常喜歡看年長的夫妻，看他們步履蹣跚卻依然牽手同行，就會覺得很溫暖，有時候偷聽到一些，絮絮叨叨的聊天，連幾根蔥做個小菜也能聊的有滋有味的，煙火氣十足卻讓人覺得好有內(nèi)涵，很有歲月的沉淀在里面。任歲月染發(fā)鬢，任風雨刻滄桑，在恩愛的老夫老妻眼里，對方的每一條皺紋，似乎都包含著過往歲月的柔情和智慧，一顰一笑都能喚醒很多有愛的記憶，特別是時不時不經(jīng)意的“秀恩愛”的虐狗行為，更是讓我們汗顏。
我大舅前年去世時90多歲，依然在念叨65歲就去世的舅媽，念叨了20多年，仿似孤獨了20多年沒有人管的老小孩，因為他們在一起的時候，感情非常好，特別是舅媽剛?cè)ナ滥菐啄?，想不到一貫?nèi)斂的舅舅，每逢想到老妻，都會潸然淚下。表姐說，他們一同經(jīng)歷過兵荒馬亂的日子，經(jīng)歷過非常拮據(jù)的日子，也經(jīng)歷過養(yǎng)兒育女的艱辛，從沒見過美男子大舅落淚，是舅媽的去世，讓他們子女真正的看到了夫妻之間的感情至深。
很多時候，我們看不到平淡的柴米油鹽里有什么情愛，也看不到日常你來我往的對話，有什么溫度，更甚至，我們被霸屏的都市劇，情感劇洗腦到，以為真愛必然有很多轟轟烈烈，超出常規(guī)的行為，讓人瘋狂的，才叫真愛，讓人死了都愛的，那樣極致的，純粹的，濃烈的，才叫真愛。
過剛易折，情深不壽，為愛瘋狂的，往往讓我們看到揪心的結(jié)局，所以有些人選擇平淡就好，寧可久一點。
我們多希望愛能夠久一點，能夠純粹一些啊，在面對如此紛紛擾擾，熙熙攘攘的人世間。
其實，每個人心里都是愛的源泉，當你自我圓滿的時候，愛滿自溢，你會發(fā)自內(nèi)心的去擁抱世上的一切，允許一切如是。
