Teach kids chores?

很多父母都不讓孩子做家務(wù). 理由是不想讓孩子累著，或者教孩子做比自己動(dòng)手更累。?

Most ?parents are reluctant to allow kids do chores for " ?likelihood of ?fatigue on kids ?caused by chores or the troublesome of teaching ?chores. "?

其實(shí)家務(wù)不僅僅是孩子自立，更重要的是能教她愛(ài)心。 為了家庭成員而付出自己的勞動(dòng)，就是一種愛(ài)的實(shí)踐。 讓他自己體驗(yàn)這種愉悅，比單純的說(shuō)教效果好多了。 另外，孩子喜歡嘗試新的活動(dòng)，做家務(wù)對(duì)他們來(lái)說(shuō)就像是一種新的游戲。?

To my knowledge , Chores is a fantastic way to ?kids to learn "love" ?along with independent . ? It is way much efficient for them to experience it ?by themselves ?rather than ?lecture of parents . ?By the way , ?kids love try new things, doing chores could be as fun as playing game .

以下是一些教幼童家務(wù)的建議：?

Below are some tips for teaching chores to young kids .

1. 越早開(kāi)始越好, 建議兩周歲就開(kāi)始教。?

Start as earlier as possible . ?2 years old recommended .

2. 分配適合他們能力的家務(wù)，在邊上提供支持。?

Assign Age-appropriate chores of which kids are capable of completing . adult supervision is required?

3. 鼓勵(lì)他們，而不是獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)。 告訴他們做的事情給家庭帶來(lái)的改變。 物質(zhì)上的獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)，是不可持續(xù)的。?

Encourage them rather than reward . ( The reward of love is love itself ) Enlighten them on the happiness of the family brought by their efforts. ? The physical reward is not sustainable ?.?

4. 不要強(qiáng)迫孩子做，要引導(dǎo)。記住，他們不是奴隸。?

Under no circumstances can you force kids to do chores, introduce the joy of chores to them instead . Remember , they are not slave .?

以下是適合孩子的家務(wù)活列表. 以及我在女兒身上試驗(yàn)的反饋^_^

Here are the guideline for specific period of kids and the feedback from my best test subject : My little girl :-)?

兩到三周歲 ? ?2-3 Years ?

Assist in making their beds ??

協(xié)助整理床鋪?

Stock books on shelf?

把書(shū)放在書(shū)架上

我在宜家買了落地書(shū)架，保證孩子能輕松拿到書(shū)和整理書(shū)。她喜歡整理的工作，就是把玩具也挪進(jìn)了書(shū)架里。?

將臟衣服放到洗衣籃里?

Take their dirty laundry to the laundry basket?

撿起玩具，放進(jìn)盒子里

Pick up playthings and place them into box?

四-五周歲 ? ? 4-5 years?

洗碗，夠不著就讓她站在凳子上。?

Wash dish and bowls ?， teach her to stand on stool to reach the basin .

打醬油?

Carry light groceries ?

擺放餐具?

Set the table ?

給花澆水

water houseplants?

孩子很喜歡澆水，家長(zhǎng)要注意點(diǎn)，因?yàn)橹参锿潜谎退赖摹?/p>

Fold Landry and match clean socks ?, put in their drawer?

整理衣服和襪子?

我們買了個(gè)迷你的衣櫥，以便她能夠到

Make salad and cold dish ?

做各種冷菜 ?

clean floor with mop?

掃地擦地?

Get Dressed with help from parents?

在父母的幫助下穿衣服