生性涼的人是對(duì)自己負(fù)責(zé)。明確哪些是自己的責(zé)任，哪些是別人的責(zé)任，不逾矩，亦不將就。
《都挺好》這部電視劇里女主角蘇明玉因小時(shí)候因父母重男輕女家庭因素，敢于和家庭絕掰。步入社會(huì)后，她懂得了什么都要靠自己，不喜歡麻煩別人，也不喜被別人麻煩。因?yàn)橹揽偸锹闊﹦e人，即便是最親最親的人，也是有界限的。
有一天，她正在街上發(fā)傳單。遇到了自己的貴人，她敢于向貴人毛遂自薦，并做出了實(shí)際行動(dòng)。在這條事業(yè)之路上為貴人創(chuàng)造出了不少價(jià)值。
為什么她可以得到貴人賞識(shí)，并得到機(jī)會(huì)后創(chuàng)造出這樣的價(jià)值？？就是因?yàn)樗环敚裁炊伎孔约喝?zhēng)取。遇到事情不慌不忙有自己的人情事故處理方法，不管任何事物懂得靠自己去獲取。有自己的明確目標(biāo)規(guī)劃及行動(dòng)。
生性涼薄其實(shí)倒不如說(shuō)是看的太透，能夠理解到這一輩子并沒(méi)有任何人能夠真正的一直陪伴，所以也就對(duì)身邊人釋然，不麻煩也不去索取幫助，因?yàn)樗麄兌卯吘鼓軌蚺惆樽约旱娜艘簿椭挥凶约骸霰∈且环N性格，是一種態(tài)度，是一種為人處事的基調(diào)。涼薄的人奉行那種冷眼看世界的方式方法。
人生建議，做一個(gè)生性涼薄的人。
A cool person is responsible for himself. Know what is your responsibility and what is the responsibility of others.
"All very well" in this TV series heroine su mingyu because of the childhood because of the parents of son preference family factors, dare to break off with the family. After entering the society, she learned that everything should be on their own, do not like to trouble others, also do not like to be troubled by others. Because I know that I always bother others, even the dearest and dearest people have their limits.
One day, she was handing out leaflets in the street. Met their noble, she dared to recommend themselves to the noble, and made a practical action. In this career path for the noble people to create a lot of value.
Why y can she get your appreciation, and get the opportunity to create such a value? Just because she won't give up and won everything on her own. When things are not in a hurry to have their own way to deal with the situation, no matter what things know to rely on their own to get. Have clear goals and actions.
In fact, it is better to see too much, to understand that this life and no one can really have been accompanied, so people around the release, not trouble nor to ask for help, because they know after all can accompany their own people only themselves. Cool thin is a kind of character, is a kind of attitude, is a kind of tone of people doing things. Cool thin people practice the cold way of seeing the world.
Life advice：To be a Look at the world coldly, do not bother others
