<p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img src="http://blog.pic.xiaokui.io/00c1cd7b6e17d24160a23c6d7e5ffb69" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><qqmusic class="res_iframe qqmusic_iframe js_editor_qqmusic" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" musicid="104936872" mid="00495F3N3DQeRg" albumurl="/X/x/0032wsE33S0oXx.jpg" audiourl="http://ws.stream.qqmusic.qq.com/C10000495F3N3DQeRg.m4a?fromtag=46" music_name="我們不該這樣的" commentid="1897609053" singer="張赫宣 - 北上廣不相信眼淚 電視劇原聲帶" play_length="226000" src="/cgi-bin/readtemplate?t=tmpl/qqmusic_tmpl&singer=%E5%BC%A0%E8%B5%AB%E5%AE%A3%20-%20%E5%8C%97%E4%B8%8A%E5%B9%BF%E4%B8%8D%E7%9B%B8%E4%BF%A1%E7%9C%BC%E6%B3%AA%20%E7%94%B5%E8%A7%86%E5%89%A7%E5%8E%9F%E5%A3%B0%E5%B8%A6&music_name=%E6%88%91%E4%BB%AC%E4%B8%8D%E8%AF%A5%E8%BF%99%E6%A0%B7%E7%9A%84"></qqmusic>6月的最后一天，想必很多高考完的小鮮肉們已經(jīng)完成了重要的抉擇。小編上周末有幸做了一回咨詢(xún)會(huì)的自愿者，感覺(jué)又回到了5年前，滿臉稚嫩，問(wèn)的最多的就是“應(yīng)該先選學(xué)校呢？還是先選專(zhuān)業(yè)？”小編覺(jué)得，如果條件允許，更應(yīng)該“</span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">先選地方</span></strong>”！為什么？今天我們聊聊這個(gè)讓我們深?lèi)和醇驳谋鄙蠌V深！</p><p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">今日話題：</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">年輕人為什么要去大城市？</span></strong></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如今的中國(guó)年輕人，比起溫飽，實(shí)則身處一個(gè)“至少相當(dāng)舒服的環(huán)境”，但，卻沒(méi)有了上世界的歡樂(lè)，只是不安地看著這個(gè)世界。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我們不談大小城市的優(yōu)缺點(diǎn)，呆在這里多年的你們都有各自的理由，但是我只想說(shuō)<span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">這些優(yōu)缺點(diǎn)并非是絕對(duì)的，它往往會(huì)隨著個(gè)體自身的特點(diǎn)而轉(zhuǎn)化。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">世間所有的選擇，到最后其實(shí)都是五個(gè)字：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你想要什么？</span></strong></p><p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">許多過(guò)來(lái)人見(jiàn)到這句話，會(huì)不屑地說(shuō)一句“圖樣圖森破”，告訴你這種想法實(shí)在太不成熟了，因?yàn)樵S多事情不是想想就能實(shí)現(xiàn)的。他們會(huì)擺出各種大道理，列出一連串的“反面教材”，告訴你若不循規(guī)蹈矩，人生將會(huì)如何悲慘……可是，</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果你連想想的勇氣都沒(méi)有，你又能實(shí)現(xiàn)什么？</strong></span></p><p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在大城市和小城市的問(wèn)題上，我的感情一直傾向于前者。當(dāng)然，我并不是認(rèn)為大城市一定比小城市好，更不是說(shuō)年輕人必須要選擇大城市，畢竟每個(gè)人都有自己的活法。但必須要承認(rèn)的是，在這個(gè)選擇中，天平從一開(kāi)始就是傾斜的，前者的生存壓力更大，也因此更需要勇氣去承擔(dān)。而<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">遵循內(nèi)心的勇氣</strong>，不但是我自己缺少的，也是我喜歡并尊重的。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">對(duì)于逃離大城市的年輕人，我同樣尊重，因?yàn)樗麄儑L試過(guò)。對(duì)于選擇小城市安逸生活的年輕人，我也并不反感，因?yàn)槟且参幢夭皇亲裱瓋?nèi)心的選擇。<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我唯一不能認(rèn)同的，是某些人對(duì)打拼者的嘲笑，以及庸俗化的論調(diào)。</strong></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我見(jiàn)過(guò)不少世俗眼光中的失敗者，雖然我并不認(rèn)為那是失敗，但他們無(wú)一例外遭遇了嘲笑。比如有人被迫從北上廣回到家鄉(xiāng)，就有一些這輩子未曾離開(kāi)家鄉(xiāng)的人嘲笑他在外面混不下去了，當(dāng)然還少不了“早說(shuō)過(guò)這條路走不通”之類(lèi)的論調(diào)。還有一些人正在大城市里打拼，可逢年過(guò)節(jié)回到家鄉(xiāng)，就會(huì)成為七大姑八大姨的談資以及被訓(xùn)導(dǎo)對(duì)象，告誡你生活應(yīng)該如何安守本分，結(jié)婚生子再去考個(gè)公務(wù)員才是世界上唯一的人生標(biāo)準(zhǔn)。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我甚至認(rèn)為，<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">正是這群人的存在，才逼得許多年輕人背井離鄉(xiāng)，寧愿在大城市孤獨(dú)打拼，也絕不回來(lái)</span>。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;">沒(méi)錯(cuò)，大城市里有許多平凡的打拼者，終其一生也無(wú)法躋身這個(gè)城市的上游，他們甚至買(mǎi)不起一套小房子，終日為溫飽奔波。但誰(shuí)有資格嘲笑他們呢？沒(méi)有人可以。正如毛利在《普通女孩，就該滾出大城市？》中所寫(xiě)：</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“為什么一定非要成功、出色，才能留在大城市？為什么女人不能像男人一樣自由選擇去留，她永遠(yuǎn)都該仰仗別人的意見(jiàn)生活嗎？”</strong></p><p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在中國(guó)人的人生選擇中，女性比男性的空間更為狹窄，沒(méi)在三十歲前把自己嫁出去仿佛是一條死罪，結(jié)婚后沒(méi)生出孩子來(lái)同樣是死罪。在毛利筆下，“這些美劇的忠誠(chéng)東方女性觀眾們，并沒(méi)受到多大的感召，<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她們?cè)诎謰尩姆孔永锟粗鴦e人為所欲為，一點(diǎn)不為之所動(dòng)</span>，因?yàn)槭浪渍f(shuō)，大城市的榮光并不屬于她們。”</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一個(gè)社會(huì)對(duì)女性的苛求與偏見(jiàn)，意味著整體價(jià)值觀的缺陷。女性遭遇苛求，男性同樣不會(huì)好過(guò)。認(rèn)為女性留在小城市安于現(xiàn)狀就是最好的七大姑八大姨，同樣也是逼婚、逼考公務(wù)員的主力，她們的逼迫對(duì)象其實(shí)不分男女，這也許是小城市最讓人窒息的一面。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 40.332px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 495.508px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2.6em; height: 2.6em; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; line-height: 2.6em; border-radius: 50%; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(123, 191, 234);"><section style="margin-top: 0.36em; margin-bottom: 0.35em; margin-left: 0.44em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 1.8em; height: 1.8em; line-height: 1.8em; border-radius: 50%; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 26.9922px; height: 26.9922px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1</section></section></section></section><section style="margin: -0.5em auto 0.3em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-top-width: 1.1em; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(123, 191, 234); word-wrap: break-word !important; border-left-width: 1em !important; border-left-style: solid !important; border-left-color: transparent !important; border-right-width: 1.12em !important; border-right-style: solid !important; border-right-color: transparent !important;"></section><section class="" style="padding-top: 1px; padding-right: 5px; padding-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-color: rgb(123, 191, 234); display: inline-block; border-top-width: 2px; border-top-style: solid; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">故事1</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我有一個(gè)朋友，不諳世事，不善交際，有一份穩(wěn)定工作和中等收入。與許多獨(dú)生子女一樣，她在父母支持下買(mǎi)房買(mǎi)車(chē)，一個(gè)人住著140平方的房子，每日按部就班地開(kāi)車(chē)上下班，不知不覺(jué)年過(guò)三十。也是<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在三十歲這一年，她放棄了這一切，選擇北漂，租房、擠地鐵……</strong></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">當(dāng)然有人會(huì)說(shuō)她傻，可她卻比以前開(kāi)心多了。她離開(kāi)這個(gè)小城的唯一理由是<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孤獨(dú)</span></strong>，同時(shí)，她又不愿像長(zhǎng)輩們所說(shuō)的那樣，隨便找個(gè)人結(jié)婚生子告別孤獨(dú)——那樣的話，也許會(huì)更孤獨(dú)。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在某些人看來(lái)，這種孤獨(dú)似乎有點(diǎn)矯情。他們還會(huì)搬出“適應(yīng)社會(huì)”這一萬(wàn)能法則，告訴你這是你自身的問(wèn)題，你要改變自己，釋放自己，接觸社會(huì)，就能有更廣闊的圈子?？墒?，這個(gè)說(shuō)法<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">從根本上抹殺了人與人之間原本就具有的差異，忽略了人的個(gè)性。</strong>價(jià)值觀的差異也與身份、地位無(wú)關(guān)，即使都是高學(xué)歷，即使都有體面的工作，但一個(gè)讀哈耶克、薩義德和《古拉格群島》的人，又怎么可能和一個(gè)除了課本再?zèng)]讀過(guò)其他書(shū)的人有心靈上的契合呢？</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在人際交往上，我們最多只能做到禮節(jié)上的互不侵犯，但越是交心，越不可能越過(guò)價(jià)值觀的差異。因?yàn)閮r(jià)值觀而造成的孤獨(dú)，無(wú)法因?yàn)樽陨淼母淖兌徑狻６?，即使改變，也只能就高不就低，也就是說(shuō)，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你可以讓自己變得更好，去適應(yīng)別人的高度，但無(wú)法刻意拉低自己的智商，去遷就比自己更平庸的人</span></strong>。</p><p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在男權(quán)社會(huì)里，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有較高文化素養(yǎng)和能力的女性，更容易在小城市里感受到這種孤獨(dú)</strong>。工作沒(méi)有挑戰(zhàn)性，缺少有共同話題的朋友，找不到看得上眼的男人，還要因?yàn)闆](méi)拍拖、不結(jié)婚和沒(méi)生孩子這樣的事情被當(dāng)成異端，這已經(jīng)不僅僅是孤獨(dú)的問(wèn)題，更關(guān)乎尊嚴(yán)的喪失。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，一個(gè)人越出色，小城市的面目就越可憎。但小城市仍然只是小城市，<span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你依然要忍受以下這些事情：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你還是得自己開(kāi)著車(chē)跑去大城市看話劇和演唱會(huì)；</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">老一輩永遠(yuǎn)關(guān)心你為什么二十五歲了怎么還不結(jié)婚？</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">結(jié)婚都一年了怎么還不生孩子？</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">即使是年輕人，坐下來(lái)就跟你談贏在起跑線上的孩子經(jīng)？</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有時(shí)，我甚至?xí)羞@樣的錯(cuò)覺(jué)：能忍受這些，簡(jiǎn)直需要比在大城市打拼還要多萬(wàn)倍的勇氣。當(dāng)然，后來(lái)我明白了，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">這不是勇氣，而是妥協(xié)和懦弱</span></strong>。大城市當(dāng)然也存在這些問(wèn)題，但你起碼有躲開(kāi)的幾率，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果你有足夠能力，在大城市里還可以主宰自己的生活。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></strong></p><p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 40.332px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 495.508px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2.6em; height: 2.6em; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; line-height: 2.6em; border-radius: 50%; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(123, 191, 234);"><section style="margin-top: 0.36em; margin-bottom: 0.35em; margin-left: 0.44em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 1.8em; height: 1.8em; line-height: 1.8em; border-radius: 50%; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 26.9922px; height: 26.9922px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">2</section></section></section></section><section style="margin: -0.5em auto 0.3em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-top-width: 1.1em; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(123, 191, 234); word-wrap: break-word !important; border-left-width: 1em !important; border-left-style: solid !important; border-left-color: transparent !important; border-right-width: 1.12em !important; border-right-style: solid !important; border-right-color: transparent !important;"></section><section class="" style="padding-top: 1px; padding-right: 5px; padding-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-color: rgb(123, 191, 234); display: inline-block; border-top-width: 2px; border-top-style: solid; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">故事2</section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 40.332px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我有一個(gè)朋友，他的故鄉(xiāng)在一個(gè)內(nèi)陸不發(fā)達(dá)省份的小城，他曾說(shuō)過(guò)這樣一句話：“我死也不會(huì)回去的，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">因?yàn)槲也幌朐诙鄽q時(shí)看到自己六十歲的樣子。</span></strong>”因?yàn)?，在那樣的小城里，除了公?wù)員、國(guó)企、學(xué)校、醫(yī)院之外，你幾乎沒(méi)有什么其他的選擇。他用可以在老家買(mǎi)別墅的錢(qián)，供了一套北京的小房子，然后告訴我：“房子再小， 也是我買(mǎi)的，路再難，也是我自己選的，這樣的話，誰(shuí)也沒(méi)有借口來(lái)干涉我的生活?！?lt;/section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我知道，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 191, 234); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">這就是勇氣</span></strong>。它似乎可以回應(yīng)某些老人的另一種荒謬論調(diào)——年輕人選擇大城市是一種逃避，比如逃避生活的責(zé)任和傳宗接代的重任等。且不說(shuō)年輕人選擇大城市大多有著理想和追求的因素，即使真的是逃避，我也建議持此論調(diào)的人先檢討一下自己：</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">為什么人家<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">甘愿放棄安逸</strong>，</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">以孤身去大城市打拼的代價(jià)</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">去逃避你以及你所期盼的那些東西，</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">是什么讓你和你的期望</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">比巨大的生活壓力和激烈競(jìng)爭(zhēng)更恐怖？</p><p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我只能說(shuō)：越是沒(méi)有能力選擇自己生活的人，越是庸碌無(wú)知的人，越喜歡嘲笑那些有勇氣去承受壓力的人。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></section></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不夠現(xiàn)實(shí)的烏托邦，總會(huì)引來(lái)嘲笑。但是，</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">二十多歲的你，</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">是希望看到一個(gè)烏托邦，</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;">還是看到自己六十歲時(shí)的樣子呢？</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254);"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span class="" style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">END</span></p></section><section style="margin-top: -12px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; 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