今天看了一段話，關(guān)于婚姻的，寫(xiě)得非常好，分享給大家。

“Most people get married believing a myth---that marriage is a beautiful box fill of all the things they have longed for. Companionship, sexual fulfillment,intimacy, and friendship. The truth is that marriage, at the start, is an empty box. You much put something in before you can take anything out. There is no love in marriage; love is in people, and people put it into marriage. There is no romance in marriage,people have to infuse it into their marriage. A couple must learn the art and form a habit of giving,loving,serving,praising--keeping the box full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will empty.”

翻譯過(guò)來(lái)的大概意思是：很多人結(jié)婚時(shí)都誤認(rèn)為婚姻是一個(gè)美麗的寶盒，里面有他們一直渴望的一切：親密的伙伴關(guān)系、生活的滿足、兩人之間的卿卿我我以及友情。但事實(shí)是，婚姻一開(kāi)始是個(gè)空盒子，你得先往里面放進(jìn)一些東西，才能從里面取出東西?；橐霰旧硎菦](méi)有愛(ài)的，愛(ài)在人的心里，因此人們必須往婚姻中注入愛(ài)。婚姻本身也沒(méi)有浪漫，人們必須在自己的婚姻生活中制造浪漫。夫妻雙方應(yīng)該學(xué)會(huì)愛(ài)的藝術(shù)，養(yǎng)成這些良好的習(xí)慣：彼此付出、相愛(ài)、給予、贊美，讓婚姻這個(gè)美麗的盒子總是滿滿的。如果我們的索取多于付出，婚姻這個(gè)盒子終將會(huì)變空。

白話文就是：婚姻需要呵護(hù)、經(jīng)營(yíng)和堅(jiān)守！

但所有一切的前提是：一，找一個(gè)好人；二、自己做個(gè)好人！

祝所有看文的我們都婚姻幸福！