捕捉此間的想法，點(diǎn)亮心燈，照亮前方的路。
——題記

很多校園霸凌的產(chǎn)生根源是家庭里父母打孩子，讓孩子以為大人就可以打小人。
A large amount of school bullying is rooted in parents' hitting the child at home, an outcome which may well result in the latter’s misconception that it is not at all wrong for larger people to bully the smaller ones.

然而，真正有效的教育在于升級(jí)認(rèn)知。這個(gè)結(jié)果沒有達(dá)成，打孩子其實(shí)不僅無效，而且傷害親子關(guān)系，對(duì)建立親密家庭無益。
Yet, the truly effective parenting is of a cognition-upgrade nature. Not reaching this level, beating the child is generally neither productive nor beneficial to build up affection and closeness among family members, which impairs the parent-child relationship.

因此，作為父母，重點(diǎn)應(yīng)該思考用何種有建設(shè)性的方法升級(jí)孩子的認(rèn)知。進(jìn)一步想，更重要的其實(shí)是如何持續(xù)升級(jí)自己的認(rèn)知。生活處處皆用腦?。?br> Thus, as parents, we should give priority to the constructive way we enhance our child’s cognition. If we think it over, it is how to improve our own cognition that actually matters more. Life is full of moments when we need to use our brains!

Note:
at home 強(qiáng)調(diào)地點(diǎn)“家”，
in the family 有“家人”這層語義。
家族企業(yè)，可以說 “in the family business”。

——The End——
2019, 還有好多好玩的事要做呢！