Test is not really a good thing

We have been in many tests.

As a Chinese student,I have many bad experiences in exam.

Every time my father asks me a test which was end in ancient time,I really don't want to talk to him.

In my inner mind,they just care for test rather than me as a student.To my great disappointment,the only thing they focus on is? the result of the event not the process something about my Uncontrollable nervousness、my Unbearable anxiety and uncertain mood.

My friend mother will lock her in her bedroom if she didn't have a good performance in the exam.Also to my cherished father ,I know he is always busy and obliged to do more things than me,but he just ask the consequence of my? three-month-aged testing.

I don't think a great number of parents are not aware of their children,even loved their children deeply,but the reality is that child lost the initial pleasure in study.

If I do well? in exam,I don't feel pleased.I will? tell myself for ——that is not a bad thing.However,as if I have a bad result just for a single time,I will keep on feeling bad,judging myself a loser.

There merely are not satisfied and not unsatisfied.It's not a good state in study.Winning is all the thing,while failure means there is non-meaningful.The elasticity between both sides is too little.

Indeed,when you are at the age to try everything what you want even if it is little meaning for you? growth,it's the real value of salad days.In addition,in the way to strive to success,no failure means no scenery.

your uncomfortable feelings are not anyone's fault. It only shows that we have demanding demands.

If your parents try to love you in their best way as well,don't complaint them.Just adjusting yourself on your own is also a filial duty.

我們從未離開考試

作為一個中國學(xué)生,我有很多關(guān)于考試的糟糕體驗

每次當(dāng)我爸爸問我一些很早的考試結(jié)果時,我都不想和他說話

在我內(nèi)心深處,他們只是關(guān)心考試而不是作為學(xué)生的我。更令人失望的是他們只關(guān)心結(jié)果不關(guān)心過程,包括我忍不住的緊張、難以忍受的焦慮和飄忽不定的心緒的艱難過程

如果我朋友沒有取得一個好成績,她很有可能被她的媽媽所在自己的房間里。就算是我很愛的爸爸也只是會問三個月前的考試結(jié)果,即時我知道他很忙并且他需要扛的責(zé)任比我多的多

我不認(rèn)為大部分都父母不是孩子的有心人,甚至很愛他們,但事實的真相是很多孩子失去了學(xué)習(xí)最初的快樂

如果我取得好成績,我不會很高興,我只會和自己說還好,還好不是很糟糕。但是如果我在考試中有一次失敗了,我會一直有一種念想——自己挺失敗的

考試后的感受只有兩種:不滿意和沒有不滿意。這不是一種好的學(xué)習(xí)狀態(tài)。成功就仿佛擁有一切,失敗就好像一無所有,這中間的彈性太小了

事實上年輕的時候你愿意去試錯,做一些你想做但意義不大的事情也沒有關(guān)系。那些嘗試才是你青春歲月里最寶貴的東西。并且,在奮斗的路上,沒有失敗就好像沒有了風(fēng)景

你不好的狀態(tài)不是任何一個人的錯,這只是時代對于我們的要求更高了而已

如果你的父母也盡全力用他們認(rèn)為最好的方式來對待你,請不要抱怨他們。調(diào)整好自己的狀態(tài),更好地生活也是一種孝心

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