During my childhood , I was very thin and short. Some of my relatives came to my house，they often said to my mother:“ your daughter, is so short and thing she will never be tall even she is an adult. Because she is similar to her aunt. They also has a short neck.” I was so sad and angry with what they said I want you be tall and I want to have a straight and a long leg. My mother said to me if you want to have a long and straight like you should straighten your leg when you sleep on the bed. So, even in the winter in the cold weather, I get my leg when I sleep in the night I hope I can have straight and the long legs. When I grow up, I was not short anymore I’m already 168 cm. I’m satisfied with my height.

When I’m in middle school , one of my teacher said to me, you should to learn psychology, otherwise you cannot go to a go to university. I don’t believe it . Even though I want to go to a good university, I don’t like the way to learn psychology so I told myself if you want to go to a good university of prove your ability to your teacher, you must try your best to your study. Add that I already do my homework in the middle middle night and get got up earlier in the morning to recite the articles of some knowledge. As I need to learn I lost. I went to a good university .I want to tell the teacher I go to a good university without learning psychology.

2013, I graduate from my university and get a my master degree of law. I decided to get married with my boyfriend love for seven years already and it was going to have a baby . When my mother knows my decisions, she objective. She said if you get married to earlier and have a baby to earlier, you will have a black future because you have no extra walking purines that’s been to time on your baby you have no time to improve yourself and the just good at washing, dishing, and taking care of a baby, you destroyed your life. baby was borned, I had a bad relationship with my mother. We had nothing to talk with each other, but I remember I need to do one thing I should prove, I can change my life style to her. When my baby was 11 months old. I didn’t mean to go to find a job. It was too difficult for me to find a job because of my gap time for 11 month lease I attend the interview and they deliver my letter to some position. Finally I got a job I got a legal assistant job in a firm.