當(dāng)我們加入一場(chǎng)談判甚至是辯論時(shí)，我們首先要做的是感謝對(duì)方，這并不是一種冠冕堂皇或者約定俗成的姿態(tài)或者儀式，而是為了慶幸雙方尚有共識(shí)。在缺乏任何共識(shí)的情況下，連最激烈的辯論都會(huì)顯得多余，剩下的解決方案只能是冷漠或兵戎相見！

When we join a negotiation or even a debate, the first thing we do is to thank for the participation of the other party. This is not a high-sounding or conventional gesture or ceremony, but to celebrate that the two parties still share some consensus. In the absence of any consensus, even the fiercest debate will be superfluous, and the remaining solutions is unconcern or war!