寫在前面：這篇文章不是我自己寫的，只是看了一篇英文文章，然后將它翻譯過來，其中刪減了一小點(diǎn)部分以及小部分語句做了小小的改動。在文章的最后我會附上英文原文的，有興趣的小伙伴們可以看一看。

好啦，廢話不多說了，下面就是我的翻譯文本，歡迎吐槽的。。。。

贏得人生的5大法則

1.憧憬你的生活

先問問你自己想要成為什么樣子的人

（1）你想要成為具有什么樣品質(zhì)的人

（2）你的夢想是什么

（3）你的目標(biāo)是什么

（4）你想要得到什么

當(dāng)你在走到生命盡頭的時候回頭看，你會說，哇，我已經(jīng)活過我想要的生活，我找到屬于我生命的意義。這些就是我覺得有意義的事情，這些就是令我感到快樂的事情，這些就是令我感到自豪的事情，我很高興能夠成為這樣的人。

這只是一個愿景，坐下來靜靜思考，你想從生活中得到什么，你想要為生活貢獻(xiàn)什么，你想在生活中經(jīng)歷些什么。

有可能很多人會說，我不知道我到底想要什么，或者我想成為什么樣的人。你也不可能一下子就突然頓悟，如夢初醒，對于大多數(shù)的我們需要努力，勤奮。

坐下來，拿一張紙和一支筆，問你自己下面這些問題：

（1）你的愿景是什么

（2）你想從生活中得到什么

（3）你想對這個世界貢獻(xiàn)出什么

（4）你想要建立一個怎樣的人際關(guān)系

這個需要思考，如果你不知道，好吧。去更多的經(jīng)歷一下這個世界吧，去不同的地方，不同的社區(qū)，去問不同的人他們是如何從生活中發(fā)現(xiàn)他們所想要的。開始這段旅程，愿你成為你生活中愿景的探索者。

這一切都是關(guān)于你想要成為一個什么樣的人，生活在每一天，成為那樣的人。

2.相信你有解決問題的能力

有些人就是無法相信自己。相信你自己和你有解決問題的能力—這是一個使命。它可以使你進(jìn)入任何未知，不確定的領(lǐng)域。我不知道這里會發(fā)生什么事情，但是我會弄清楚的。

我們所有人都應(yīng)該有的人生信念：通過足夠多的時間，精力，專注和資源，我們可以發(fā)展知識，技能，能力，掌握任何我們必須成功的領(lǐng)域。

明天會更好的，我會不斷進(jìn)步，即使前方是困難險(xiǎn)阻。

當(dāng)生活中的風(fēng)暴無情地吹打著你，你必須說：你知道，著只是一個困難，一個挑戰(zhàn)。這個挑戰(zhàn)很有侵略性，但是我可以一我的方式去解決，這不會很容易的：我會遇到很多困難，挫折。別人可能會很無情，但是我會以我的方式去解決。我將會從中學(xué)到很多，我將會是自我得到提升，得到成長。

好好地解決這場戰(zhàn)斗，因?yàn)槟阒滥愕膬?nèi)心和思想可以戰(zhàn)勝它的。你可以戰(zhàn)勝它的，而且從一段時間內(nèi)，你可以從其他人那里學(xué)到很多。當(dāng)你解決問題了，你的自信心會極大的提升，你的能力，知識，技能自然也就得到提升了，你的天賦得到了挖掘，你掌控了你的生活。

3.無論什么，都應(yīng)該享受，盡情去追逐你的夢想吧。

當(dāng)你有了自己的愿景，夢想，知道自己想要的，你就應(yīng)該享受生命這趟旅程，即使在這個過程中，你會過的很艱難，你需要處理不同的事情。不管你得到什么，你在處理任何事情，告訴你自己，我正在享受這個過程。

不論你喜歡何種生活方式，你以什么樣的方式享受快樂，盡情地讓這種情況發(fā)生吧。

4.耐心而執(zhí)著

保持冷靜。生活可能并不是你想象中的進(jìn)展的那么快。給自己一點(diǎn)耐心，做好自己手頭上的工作。很多人被他們自己所擊敗了，因?yàn)樗麄兪侨绱说闹薄?/p>

我覺得人類身上一個很不好的特質(zhì)和行為是想要在短時間內(nèi)就得到回報(bào)，卻不想付出。

冷靜的對待挑戰(zhàn)，尊重挑戰(zhàn)。保持耐心，如果我遵守原則，保持專注于對自己，對大家，對我的事業(yè)，對我的生活有益處的事情，我知道，再經(jīng)過一段耐心的等待后，成功終將會到來。

要成為一個學(xué)習(xí)者，你必須要保持耐心，但關(guān)鍵的要素是你要保持耐心。

持續(xù)的行動和行為可以讓你保持領(lǐng)先。如果我們有我們想要的東西，那么它必須是一種生活規(guī)則，因?yàn)槲覀儾荒苤皇情_始某件事情，然后停止它，這會讓你分心的。

5.懂得愛和尊重別人

我們都處在人生的這場游戲中，我們都在盡我們所能的做到最好，愛和尊重他人對我們的幸福和我們說關(guān)心的人的聯(lián)系至關(guān)重要，這對我們的命運(yùn)至關(guān)重要，我們盡量保持簡單，享受生命中美好的部分。

對于我來說，愛別人是我的一個準(zhǔn)則，我將所有圍繞著我的神圣的充滿能量的愛放大并將它給人們。這就是我。

我認(rèn)為尊重別人是非常重要的。我們?nèi)萑趟麄冇凶约旱纳?。允許他們可以有自己的言論，有他們自己的想法，允許他們跟著自己的直覺走。讓他們以自己的方式和這個世界和平相處。接受，理解，同情，憐憫，對他人保持熱情。

5 Rules to Win the Game of Life

1. Have visionfor your life.

Have a vision for who you want tobecome.

What are the qualities of the kind of person you? ? want to be like?

What are your dreams?

What are your goals?

What are your desires?

Where do you want to go in life?

What will you find meaningful at the endof your life when you look back and you say,Wow, I’ve lived my life.

These were the things I found meaningful. These were the things I was happy

about. This was what I had pride in, having become this type of person.

That’svision. Sitting down and thinkingabout what you want from life, what you want to contribute to life, what youwant to experience in life.

A lot of people would say, “I just don’thave vision for myself.” Well, vision doesn’t land on you; it’s not like youwalk out of your house one day and the piano of purpose falls on your head andsuddenly everything is clear. Some people have that epiphany. Some people havethat awakening, but for most of us, it requires diligence and work.

Sit down with a piece of paper and a penand ask yourself these questions:

What’s my vision for life?

What do I want my life to be like?

What kind of work do I want to contribute to the

world?

What kind of relationships do I want to build?

That requires thought, brainstorming,and if you don’t know the answers, that’s OK. Experience the world some more.Go sample different parts of the world, your community or ask other people howthey discovered what they wanted in life. Start this journey; become a seekerof what your vision will be.

It’s all about the type of person youwant to become, and living each and every single day to become that person.

At some point in my life, I thought,I

want to become more present, because I wasn’t. I wasn’t able to get thatawareness around me of other people, that awareness of my thoughts, feelingsand emotions, to experience the full immensity and magic of the moment. I said,I

have the vision to become a present person.I had to discipline myself to tune in and say,What

am I paying attention to right now? What am I feeling? What am I sensing? Am I

in this moment? Am I here with this person or am I checked out and away?Itwas a discipline to live out my vision of that type of person.

2. Believe inyour ability to figure things out.

Some people just can’t believe inthemselves. That should be a mission, too—tobelieve in your total selfand your ability tofigure things out. It allows you to wade into any unknown territory, anyuncertainty, and say,I don’t know what the hell is going on here, but

I will figure it out.

That is a life belief we all must have:the ability to know that with enough time, energy, focus and resources, thatover a period of time, we can develop the knowledge, skill, competency,mastery of any areathat we must succeedin.

With enough time, dedication and effort,we can do it.

There will be a

better tomorrow. There will be something that I move and progress in my life

toward this, even if it’s a slog or a struggle.

When the worst of life’s storms hit you,say:You know what, this is terrible right now. This challenge is

awful, but I’ll figure my way out of it. It might not be easy; there will be

hardship, struggle and frustration. Other people will be jerks, but I’ll figure

my way out of it. I will learn through this. I will develop through this. I

will grow through this. I will move through this. There will be a better

tomorrow. There will be something that I move and progress in my life toward

this, even if it’s a slog or a struggle.Honor that struggle.

Be OK with that struggle, because youknow in your heart and mind, you will figure it out. You will figure it out andas you learn more from other people over a period of time,you’ll gain that confidence, and guess what?As you figure things out, you develop competency. You develop your knowledge,skills and abilities, your talent and mastery of life. And with competencycomes confidence. It will all come from believing in yourself and your abilityto figure it out, enough times that you got it.

3. Have fun, nomatter what, chasing your dreams.

When you have that vision, dream,desire, you’re going to have fun on this journey,even when it sucks, even when it’s difficult,even when you’re dealing with someone you don’t like. Whatever you got,whatever you’re dealing with, just say,I’m going to bring the fun. I’m

going to bring the joy into this situation proactively.I’m not

going to wait for something to happen for me to have fun.

Whatever way you enjoy life, whateverway that fun, joy, zest and enthusiasm sparks for you—make that happen.

I go into the tensest situations in mybusiness now sometimes, where major decisions are on my shoulders. But I decideI’m going to be the one tobring the joyto that situation. I’mgoing to bring light to that darkness, even though sometimes I feel overwhelmedby that darkness of doubt, delay or distraction in my life. I’m going to movethat aside and show up, because I have this rule, no matter what, that I willhave fun doing what I am doing, chasing my dreams.

And that’s allowed my life to have avery uncommon charge. It’s not luck; it’s discipline, of having fun andbringing that into every single situation.

4. Be patientbut persistent.

Be cool. Life might not be progressingas fast as you want it to be. Give yourself the patience and allowance to do agood job.It might take longer than you thinkit’sgoing to take. A lot of people beat themselves up because they’re in such ahurry.

I think some of the worst components andworst behaviors and vices of humankind come from being in way too big of ahurry and wanting that immediate payoff, being entitled to have it right nowwithoutallowing that long journey of struggle.

I’m cool with the struggle. I honor thestruggle. I know it’s going to be there. I’m patient. If I am disciplined andfocused on doing the things that are good for me, for others, for my business,for my life, for you, I know over a period of time with enough patience, thesuccess will come.

Do you know how long I did these videosbefore I ever made it a career? Do you know how many stages I spoke on and justsucked?I was allowing myself to learn.

To be a learner, you have to have patiencewith yourself, but the critical element is that you have to be persistent.You’re allowing time to take place as you’re putting these things in, you’reallowing the universe to align with your desires, dreams and focus. You arealso not stopping. You are persistent in your actions.

It’s that peaceful warrior that you areworking toward. You are fighting. You are struggling to move toward it, but atthe exact same time, you’re cool.

You’re accepting that everything is asit needs to be right now, but you are continually taking action.

That persistence of action and behavioris what gets you ahead. It has to be a rule of life if we’re going to have whatwe want, because we can’t just start something and stop it all the time; that’sjust distraction.

We have to be persistenttoward ourdreams and patient with ourselves.

5. Love andrespect others playing the same game.

We’re all in this game of life. We’reall doing the best that we can.Loving and respecting other peopleiscritical not only to our happiness and connection with the people we care for,it is critical to our destiny. It is critical to our legacy. It is critical toour legend. It is critical to our simple, everyday experience of the good partsof life.

To love other people is a rule for me. Itake all this divine energy of love around me and I try to amplify and give itto people. That’s how I see myself, as a big vessel of good amplification andgood vibesfor human beings.

I think it’s critical that we respectother people. We tolerate that they have their own life. It’s about allowingpeople to have their own voice, allowing people to have their own experience,allowing them to follow their intuition. Let them follow their own rules and beOK with it. Let them follow their own life and be OK with it. Accepting,understanding,empathetic, sympathetic, compassionate, kindto other people—that’s the zest of life.

It’s that great grand connection thatultimately makes us feel, as human beings, fulfilled: because we are loved.

So love others on your journey. Make ita practice. Make it a discipline. Make it an area of mastery, where otherpeople around you always feel like you’re so attentive to them that they feeladored and appreciated. They feel your affection and it’s real, authentic andgenuine, and they’re like,Wow, this person is something.

Have that intention for other people.Care about them so much that they love to be around you, that you attract themand that you feel fulfilled in giving that very thing that birthed you:love.