After experiencing many things,I have grown a lot and learned a lot.
On one hand ,for someone, time and distance are really two scaring things ,they can change many , including someone's heart .But for me,one's heart should not be changed by all . On the other hand ,it seems that time and distance may even make one forget the other in spite of their beautiful memery and one's full-hearted devotion to the other.There may be many reasons for the case ,but none could cure a blooding heart.
I also learned that something might not develop according to your mind , but you have got to accept it .Because a very important part of growth is to accept .
And sometimes you should also learn not to be too self-important , because for the other, your full-hearted devotion may even worth nothing.That is cruel ,but that just may be the truth .
In a word,all is acceptable for a heart broken man.