有時(shí)候，事情發(fā)生了改變，就再也變不回原來的樣子了。這就是生活！生活在變化，日子在住前走，我們也應(yīng)隨之改變，而不是在原地踟躕不前。

《Who moved my cheese》是我用奶爸透析法閱讀的第一篇原著，雖然這本書的首萬詞不重復(fù)詞數(shù)只有1396，而且藍(lán)思值也很低，但是以我歷史遺留的英語缺陷讀起來還是有點(diǎn)吃力，不過讀完了還是知道他在說什么，雖然有許多地方不懂。

• 讀書筆記

世界不會(huì)因?yàn)槲覀兠總€(gè)人會(huì)有所改變，世界一直在以他獨(dú)有的方式悄然改變著，如果我們不能擁抱這種改變，就只會(huì)被淘汰。
前幾天有一個(gè)哥們還和我開玩笑說：“XX，你變了”，我一本正經(jīng)的和他說：“不，我沒變，變得是世界”。雖然很不想承認(rèn)，但又不得不承認(rèn)，我們每天都在改變著。
我們不想被人提及抑或是說自己也很不想承認(rèn)自己改變了，是我們對(duì)change的畏懼，因?yàn)槲覀儾恢喇?dāng)別人說自己變了時(shí)具體是一種什么樣的意思，是說變好了呢，還是變壞了呢?也就是Ham口中的afraid，Ham問：“WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WEREN'T AFRAID?”

隨想

• 前幾天我自己也發(fā)過一個(gè)朋友圈，意思就是我發(fā)現(xiàn)現(xiàn)在自己變成了以前非常反感甚至說厭惡的那種，我要重新找回當(dāng)初那種灑脫的感覺。
  但很戲劇性的就在哪個(gè)朋友圈發(fā)完之后碰到了我以前絕對(duì)無法忍受的事情，但是我并沒有像以前那樣做，而是很心平氣和的當(dāng)做這件事并沒有發(fā)生，而且還勸替我打抱不平的哥們，退一步海闊天空。（以前我一直認(rèn)為退一步開闊天空這句話就是教科書上那么說說而已）
• 我一直很有自信，抑或自負(fù)，如果關(guān)注愛屋及烏的朋友應(yīng)該知道。這個(gè)網(wǎng)站，我一開始域名準(zhǔn)備是叫ilikeyoulike的，因?yàn)槲蚁嘈盼蚁矚g的你一定會(huì)喜歡，后來還是一室友說youlikeilike比較好。這也算是一種change吧~
• 老人常說：“變壞容易，變好難”。我一直認(rèn)為無論變好變壞都是一念之間，變壞為什么容易？因?yàn)閴挠袝r(shí)意味著無拘無束，隨心所欲。而好往往意味著束縛，束縛也許來自社會(huì)，親戚，朋友抑或愛人。而改變最可怕的其實(shí)就是你對(duì)未知的恐懼或者說變化之后的恐懼。這點(diǎn)我很欣慰，從小養(yǎng)成了無所畏懼的性格，我一直認(rèn)為未知的，正是我想去追尋的，因?yàn)槲粗哂兄豢芍镊攘ξ覀內(nèi)ャ裤?，向往，追尋?/li>

擁抱變化固然重要，但我還是認(rèn)為有些東西不需要刻意的去改變
一個(gè)的性格，一個(gè)人的底線，一個(gè)人的驕傲，一個(gè)人的自尊如果輕易的為了什么而改變，那樣只會(huì)讓人覺得你這個(gè)人不值得相信

• 雖然我并不是很老，但也算有點(diǎn)閱歷。我見過好多人因?yàn)榻疱X，而放棄自己一直恪守著的東西；我也見過好多人因?yàn)槟撬^的“愛情”，去放棄自己的尊嚴(yán)，放棄自己的底線。我沒有鄙視的意思，只能說與自己的價(jià)值觀并不一樣。

避免被噴，所以解釋：心理學(xué)認(rèn)為，道德判斷的結(jié)果主要受倆個(gè)動(dòng)機(jī)的印象：①維護(hù)與他人的關(guān)系；②維護(hù)自身連貫的世界觀和價(jià)值觀。你判斷一件事是否道德，還取決于一直以來認(rèn)為自己是怎么樣的一個(gè)人。所以，這件事到底對(duì)不對(duì)，可以不可以，完全取決于你所處的社會(huì)環(huán)境，以及你是怎么樣的一個(gè)人。

• 我認(rèn)為不要為了什么而輕易的去改變自己一直以來所堅(jiān)持的。比如，金錢，你要相信，以你的能力，你的才華，你的知識(shí)是能夠改變自己的經(jīng)濟(jì)條件的，而不是放下身段抑或XXXXX才能擁有；再比如，感情，你要相信你能，如果不能，那就提升自我，你要相信你會(huì)遇見更好的。這玩意太玄學(xué)了，還要靠緣分：七分天注定三分靠打拼~就像那個(gè)去年很火的朱偉說的：“少一點(diǎn)功利性的追求，多一點(diǎn)不為什么的堅(jiān)持”
• overwhatch中說的“記住，永遠(yuǎn)不要只滿足世界的表象，要勇于探索未知的可能~”

《who moved my cheese》標(biāo)注

1. THE MORE IMPORTANT YOUR CHEESE IS TO YOU THE MORE YOU WANT TO HOLD ON TO IT.
2. "things change and they are never the same again. This looks like one of those times, Hem. That's life! Life moves on. And so should we."
3. IF YOU DO NOT CHANGE, YOU CAN BECOME EXTINCT.
4. WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WEREN'T AFRAID?
5. He knew sometimes some fear can be good. When you are afraid things are going to get worse, if you don't do something, it can prompt you into an action. But it is not good when you are afraid that it keeps you from doing anything.
6. SMELL THE CHEESE OFTEN SO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS GETTING OLD.
7. MOVEMENT IN A NEW DIRECTION HELPS YOU FIND NEW CHEESE.
8. WHEN YOU MOVE BEYOND YOUR FEAR, YOU FEEL FREE.
9. IMAGINING MYSELF ENJOYING NEW CHEESE EVEN BEFORE I FIND IT, LEADS ME TO IT.
10. THE QUICKER YOU LET GO OF OLD CHEESE, THE SOONER YOU FIND NEW CHEESE.
11. IT IS SAFER TO SEARCH IN THE MAZE THAN REMAIN IN A CHEESELESS SITUATION.
12. The fear you let build up in your mind is worse than the situation that actually exits.
13. He used to think more about what could go wrong than what could go right.
14. it was natural for change to continually occur, whether you expect it or not. Change could surprise you only if you didn't expect it and weren't looking for it.
15. OLD BELIEFS DO NOT LEAD YOU TO NEW CHEESE.
16. He knew when you change what you believe, you change what you do.
17. You can believe that a change will harm you and resist it. Or you can believe that finding New Cheese will help you to embrace the changed.
18. WHEN YOU SEE THAT YOU CAN FIND AND ENJOY NEW CHEESE, YOU CHANGE COURSE.
19. NOTICING SMALL CHANGES EARLY HELPS YOU ADAPT TO THE BIGGER CHANGES THAT ARE TO COME.
20. Then he laughed and realized that he had started to change as soon as he had learned to laugh at himself and at what he had been doing wrong. He realized the fastest way to change is to laugh at your own folly - then you can let go and quickly move on.
21. You could be more aware of the need to keep things simple, be flexible, and move quickly. You did not need to overcomplicate matters or confuse yourself with fearful beliefs. You could notice when the little changes began so that you would be better prepared for the big change that might be coming.
22. THE HANDWRITING ON THE WALL CHANGE HAPPENS THEY KEEP MOVING THE CHEESE ANTICIPATE CHANGE GET READY FOR THE CHEESE TO MOVE MONITOR CHANGE SMELL THE CHEESE OFTEN SO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS GETTING OLD ADAPT TO CHANGE QUICKLY THE QUICKER YOU LET GO OF OLD CHEESE,THE SOONER YOU CAN ENJOY NEW CHEESE CHANGE MOVE WITH THE CHEESE ENJOY CHANGE! SAVOR THE ADVENTURE AND ENJOY THE TASTE OF NEW CHEESE BE READY TO CHANGE QUICKLY AND ENJOY IT AGAIN THEY KEEP MOVING THE CHEESE ANTICIPATE CHANGE GET READY FOR THE CHEESE TO MOVE MONITOR CHANGE SMELL THE CHEESE OFTEN SO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS GETTING OLD ADAPT TO CHANGE QUICKLY THE QUICKER YOU LET GO OF OLD CHEESE,THE SOONER YOU CAN ENJOY NEW CHEESE CHANGE MOVE WITH THE CHEESE ENJOY CHANGE! SAVOR THE ADVENTURE AND ENJOY THE TASTE OF NEW CHEESE BE READY TO CHANGE QUICKLY AND ENJOY IT AGAIN THEY KEEP MOVING THE CHEESE
23. "What would you do if you weren't afraid?"
24. I think some things shouldn't change. For example, I want to hold on to my basic values. But I realize now that I would be better off if I had moved with the 'Cheese' a lot sooner in my life."

讀完了原著，感覺還有好多不懂得，所以我又把中文的讀了一遍

1. 有時(shí)候，事情發(fā)生了改變，就再也變不回原來的樣子了。我們現(xiàn)在遇到的情況就是這樣。這就是生活！生活在變化，日子在住前走，我們也應(yīng)隨之改變，而不是在原地踟躕不前?！?/li>
2. 如果你不改變，你就會(huì)被淘汰。
3. 如果你無所畏懼，你會(huì)怎樣做呢？
4. 遲做總比不做好。”
5. 如果我無所畏懼，我又會(huì)怎樣做呢？”
6. 當(dāng)你超越了自己的恐懼時(shí)，你就會(huì)感到輕松自在。
7. 為什么自己過去總是覺得變化會(huì)使事情變得更糟。而現(xiàn)在他認(rèn)識(shí)到，變化將會(huì)使事情變得更好。
8. 你可以相信，變化對(duì)你有害，你可以拒絕它；或者，你會(huì)相信尋找新奶酪對(duì)你有好處，你會(huì)擁抱這種變化。
9. 當(dāng)你改變了自己的信念，你也就改變了自己的行為。
10. 盡早注意細(xì)小的變化，這將有助于你適應(yīng)即將來臨的更大的變化。
11. 他已經(jīng)學(xué)會(huì)自嘲了，而當(dāng)人們學(xué)會(huì)自嘲，能夠嘲笑自己的愚蠢和所做的錯(cuò)事時(shí)，他就在開始改變了。他甚至覺得，改變自己的最快方式，就是坦然嘲笑自己的愚笨——這樣，你就能對(duì)過往云煙輕松釋然，迅速行動(dòng)起來，直面變化。
12. 有些畏懼是需要加以認(rèn)真對(duì)待的，它會(huì)幫助你避開真正的危險(xiǎn)。但絕大部分的恐懼都是不明智的，它們只會(huì)在你需要改變的時(shí)候，使你回避這種改變。 唧唧曾經(jīng)那樣地懼怕改變，他真的希望生活能夠永遠(yuǎn)按照原有的樣子繼續(xù)，但現(xiàn)在他意識(shí)到，生活并不會(huì)遵從某個(gè)人的愿望發(fā)展。改變隨時(shí)有可能降臨，但積極地面對(duì)改變卻會(huì)讓你發(fā)現(xiàn)更好的奶酪，真的是塞翁失馬，焉知非福。

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