Atomic Habits

篇首一個(gè)例子:英國(guó)自行車(chē)賽一百年沒(méi)拿過(guò)獎(jiǎng),后面2007年換了主帥,帶領(lǐng)團(tuán)隊(duì)從微小的改變開(kāi)始,十年內(nèi)拿了大滿(mǎn)貫。改變從設(shè)計(jì)更舒適的坐墊,到更適合的衣服,到裝車(chē)的貨車(chē)內(nèi)墻粉刷成白色,只是為了更清晰的看出自行車(chē)的瑕疵,以保證比賽時(shí)是最佳狀態(tài)。

這個(gè)例子就是為了引出主題:小小的改變,不斷累積便可以帶來(lái)質(zhì)的飛躍。

接下來(lái)開(kāi)始探討如何養(yǎng)成習(xí)慣:

達(dá)成一個(gè)目標(biāo),還是追根溯源,確認(rèn)你想成為一個(gè)什么樣的人?

這可能是做出改變之前最重要的事,關(guān)乎你的改變是持久還是短暫:

Imagine two people resisting a cigarette. When offered a smoke, the first person says, “No thanks. I’m trying to quit.” It sounds like a reasonable response, but this person still believes they are a smoker who is trying to be something else. They are hoping their behavior will change while carrying around the same beliefs.

The second person declines by saying, “No thanks. I’m not a smoker.” It’s a small difference, but this statement signals a shift in identity. Smoking was part of their former life, not their current one. They no longer identify as someone who smokes.

Most people don’t even consider identity change when they set out to improve. They just think, “I want to be skinny (outcome) and if I stick to this diet, then I’ll be skinny (process).” They set goals and determine the actions they should take to achieve those goals without considering the beliefs that drive their actions. They never shift the way they look at themselves, and they don’t realize that their old identity can sabotage their new plans for change.

一個(gè)微小的習(xí)慣改變,假以時(shí)日,可以帶來(lái)非常大的復(fù)利(積極or消極):

Positive Compounding

Productivity compounds.?Accomplishing one extra task is a small feat on any given day, but it counts for a lot over an entire career. The effect of automating an old task or mastering a new skill can be even greater. The more tasks you can handle without thinking, the more your brain is free to focus on other areas.

Knowledge compounds.?Learning one new idea won’t make you a genius, but a commitment to lifelong learning can be transformative. Furthermore, each book you read not only teaches you something new but also opens up different ways of thinking about old ideas. As Warren Buffett says, “That’s how knowledge works. It builds up, like compound interest.”

Relationships compound.?People reflect your behavior back to you. The more you help others, the more others want to help you. Being a little bit nicer in each interaction can result in a network of broad and strong connections over time.

Negative Compounding

Stress compounds.?The frustration of a traffic jam. The weight of parenting responsibilities. The worry of making ends meet. The strain of slightly high blood pressure. By themselves, these common causes of stress are manageable. But when they persist for years, little stresses compound into serious health issues.

Negative thoughts compound.?The more you think of yourself as worthless, stupid, or ugly, the more you condition yourself to interpret life that way. You get trapped in a thought loop. The same is true for how you think about others. Once you fall into the habit of seeing people as angry, unjust, or selfish, you see those kind of people everywhere.

Outrage compounds.?Riots, protests, and mass movements are rarely the result of a single event. Instead, a long series of microaggressions and daily aggravations slowly multiply until one event tips the scales and outrage spreads like wildfire.

在確定目標(biāo)以后,就要忘記目標(biāo),專(zhuān)注于如何做:

If you want better results, then forget about setting goals. Focus on your system instead.

You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.

四條定律:

How to Create a Good Habit

The 1st law (Cue):?Make it obvious.

The 2nd law (Craving):?Make it attractive.?

The 3rd law (Response):?Make it easy.?

The 4th law (Reward):?Make it satisfying.

How to Break a Bad Habit

Inversion of the 1st law (Cue):?Make it invisible.

?Inversion of the 2nd law (Craving):?Make it unattractive.

Inversion of the 3rd law (Response):?Make it difficult.?

Inversion of the 4th law (Reward):?Make it unsatisfying.

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