Give me more than food to nourish me. Give me the warmth and the security of your love.
滋養(yǎng)我，不僅限于食物之于我的身體；給予我溫暖，給我愛(ài)的港灣。
Let me enjoy all five senses. Give me plenty of things to look at, to feel, to smell, to listen to, to taste. And even some things to break.
任我好奇地張望，感知，傾聽(tīng)，讓我自由地呼吸，品嘗甚至偶爾搞些小破壞！
Teach me to take my turn. Watch me play so you can see how I am trying to work out my problems and what I am up against.
教我耐心等待，陪我玩耍，欣賞我的本領(lǐng)，人小鬼大，我也能解決自己的問(wèn)題！
When you tell me to do something, please tell me why I should do it. Let me feel that I am a contributing member of the family. And be sure to include me in making the family plans when you can.
不要發(fā)號(hào)施令，因?yàn)槲也皇悄愕氖勘?，凡事?qǐng)告訴我理由。我不是你計(jì)劃的一部分，而是家里的一份子，我想和你一起計(jì)劃人生！
Please don't keep me your baby when 1 want to feel grown up. Don't transfer your fears to me. I have enough of my own to cope with and I don't need any more.
不要總把我當(dāng)小孩看待，小孩都是會(huì)長(zhǎng)大的！不要把你的焦慮和恐懼轉(zhuǎn)嫁于我，因?yàn)槲业穆闊┛梢稽c(diǎn)也不比你少！
Help me not to act when I am angry. But don't make me so afraid of showing anger that I lose my capacity to feel strongly about anything.
教會(huì)我在生氣的時(shí)候控制情緒,但不要把我變成一只膽小怕事任人宰割的“小綿羊”。
Let me learn bit by bit to bear pain, to want things but to be strong enough to postpone gratification of certain feelings 1 am not ready to expenence.
給我勇氣品嘗人生的酸甜苦辣，鼓勵(lì)我勇于嘗試，拒絕誘惑，學(xué)習(xí)感受延遲滿足的快樂(lè)。
Let me try out my new powers as my body develops-to creep, to stand, to walk, climb, jump, and run when I am ready. Don't limit the natural needs of my body because you have some unresolved hang-ups.
不要因?yàn)槟阕约簝?nèi)心的焦慮而試圖泯滅我愛(ài)跑，愛(ài)跳的天性，我要上九天攬?jiān)拢挛逖笞谨M，與天公試比高！
Give me a little corner in the house that is all mine and nobody else's. I need moments of peace and quiet that cannot be invaded by anyone.
給我一方小小的天地，我也需要獨(dú)處的時(shí)間和空間，不被打擾。
Give me my share of consideration and attention. I must know every day, even if for just a few moments, that I am the only one you are thinking about and loving.
關(guān)心我的感受，不要說(shuō)我自私，我只是想知道你的心里只有我，你愛(ài)我如你的唯一，哪怕每天只有那么一分一秒！
Let me ask any question that pops into my head.
不要嫌棄我是個(gè)“十萬(wàn)個(gè)為什么”
Don't make me ashamed for having asked it, even if it seems stupid. And give me as honest an answer as you can. If you don't know the answer, please say so. It's good training to hear someone say"1 don't know, but I will try to find out for you."
鼓勵(lì)我不恥下問(wèn)并如實(shí)回答我的問(wèn)題，如果我把你問(wèn)倒了，不要支支吾吾搪塞我，最好的回答是，“我也不知道，但是我一定會(huì)為你找到答案?！?/p>
Be patient with me when I don't do things very well at first. Remember, I have so many things to learn and almost everything takes some practice.
當(dāng)我把事情搞砸了的時(shí)候，不要對(duì)我劈頭蓋臉，要知道成長(zhǎng)的路上我有那么多東西要學(xué)，但是沒(méi)有一樣我能無(wú)師自通！
Above all, grant me, without reservation, your debt to me-un- conditional love. For if I know it is there, I will be able to give the same to my children-and they will be able to give it to their children.
重中之重，請(qǐng)全身心地，無(wú)條件地愛(ài)我，因?yàn)橛幸惶飚?dāng)我長(zhǎng)大，我會(huì)把這種愛(ài)傳遞給我的孩子，我的孩子會(huì)延續(xù)這個(gè)愛(ài)的接力！
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