Do You Need a Heart Transplant?
你是否需要一次心靈移植？
By Rick Warren — Oct 26, 2016
“The fear of human opinion disables; trusting in God protects you from that” (Proverbs 29:25 MSG).
“懼怕人的，陷入圈套；惟有倚靠耶和華的，必得安穩(wěn)。”（箴29:25 和合本修訂版）
If you’re going to get control of anger in your life, you must base your identity in Jesus, understanding that he loves you unconditionally, that you are his, that you are valuable, and that he has a purpose and plan for your life.
如果你打算在你生命中控制憤怒，那這必須要建立在你在基督里的身份，明白他毫無(wú)條件的愛你，因?yàn)槟闶菍偎?，你是有價(jià)值的，并且他對(duì)你的人生有一個(gè)計(jì)劃和目的。
If you build your identity on anything else, you’ll struggle with insecurity your whole life. You can build your identity on your job, but you can lose your job. You can build your identity on how good-looking you are, but you may lose your good looks. You can build your identity on the person you married, but he or she is going to die. You can build your identity on being popular, but you’re not always going to be popular.
如果你將你的身份建立在其他的事情上，那你的生命就會(huì)在不穩(wěn)固中掙扎。你可以在你職場(chǎng)中建立身份，但你也會(huì)丟掉工作。你可以在你的美貌上建立身份，但是你也會(huì)失去你美貌。你可以將身份建立在配偶身上，但是他或她也會(huì)去世。你可以將身份建立在成名上，但是你并不會(huì)一直受歡迎。
If you build your identity on anything that can be taken away from you, you’re going to be insecure, and insecurity is at the root of your anger. Until you start feeling secure about yourself, people are going to be able to push your buttons. When you know who you are and whose you are, people can’t push your buttons. They can’t get to you. Anger and insecurity go together. The more insecure you feel, the angrier you feel.
如果你將你的身份建立在那些可以離開你的事情上，你就會(huì)感到不安全，不安全感就成了你憤怒的根源。在你開始從自己身上感覺到安全之前，任何人都能夠觸動(dòng)你的按鈕。當(dāng)你知道你是誰(shuí)，你屬于誰(shuí)之后，任何人都不能觸動(dòng)你的按鈕。他們找不到你。憤怒和不安全感一起離去。你越是感覺不安全，你就會(huì)越憤怒。
The Bible says in Proverbs 29:25, “The fear of human opinion disables; trusting in God protects you from that” (MSG).
圣經(jīng)在箴言29：25說(shuō)到，“懼怕人的，陷入圈套；惟有倚靠耶和華的，必得安穩(wěn)?！保?9:25 和合本修訂版）
When you get angry, your mouth just reveals what’s inside your heart. A harsh tongue reveals an angry heart. A negative tongue reveals a fearful heart. A boasting tongue reveals an insecure heart.
當(dāng)你憤怒的時(shí)候，你的嘴巴就顯露了你的內(nèi)心。刺耳的舌顯露了忿怒的心。消極的舍顯露了恐懼的心，夸大的舌顯露了沒有安全感的心。審判的舌頭顯露了罪惡的內(nèi)心。挑剔的舌頭顯露了尖銳的內(nèi)心。污穢的舌頭顯露了不純潔的內(nèi)心。
On the other hand, an encouraging tongue reveals a happy heart, a gentle tongue reveals a loving heart, and a controlled tongue reveals a peaceful heart.
另一方面，鼓勵(lì)人的舌頭彰顯了喜樂的心，溫和的舌頭彰顯了有愛的心，有約束的舌頭彰顯了平和的心。
You know what you need to get rid of your anger problem? You need a heart transplant. Fortunately, God specializes in heart transplants. It’s called salvation! God gives you a brand new heart and a brand new identity. You don’t have to find your identity in your job or your bank account or your good looks or your relationships, because you find your identity in what God says about you.
你知道用什么來(lái)除去你的憤怒呢？你需要一次心靈移植。幸運(yùn)的是，上帝在心靈移植方面很專業(yè)。這就是救贖！上帝給了你一個(gè)嶄新的心靈和一個(gè)嶄新的身份。你不需要在你的職場(chǎng)、銀行賬戶、美貌、關(guān)系中去建立你的身份，因?yàn)槟阍谏系坳P(guān)乎你的話中找到了。
Jesus can heal the three things that cause anger: hurt, frustration, and fear. Jesus can heal your hurting heart with his love. Jesus can replace your frustrated heart with his peace. Jesus can replace your insecure heart with a heart full of his strength and love.
耶穌可以醫(yī)治三方面的憤怒：傷害，挫折和恐懼。耶穌可以用他的愛醫(yī)治受傷的心靈。耶穌可以用他的和平來(lái)代替你受挫的心。耶穌可以用他滿有力量和充滿愛的心來(lái)代替你不安穩(wěn)的心。
If you pick up a crying baby and hold it close so that it feels warm and secure, it stops crying. It stops being angry. When you feel secure and accepted in Jesus Christ, your anger is going to dissipate.
如果你抱起來(lái)一個(gè)正在哭的嬰孩，緊緊地抱住他，那就是感覺到溫暖和安全，就會(huì)停止哭泣。這也使憤怒止息。當(dāng)你感受到基督里的安全和接納，你的憤怒就會(huì)消散。
Maybe you need to pray this prayer today: “Dear God, I admit I have a problem with my anger. I let other people push my buttons, I get even, and I don’t think before speaking. I’m asking for your help. Help me to reflect before reacting. Help me to learn to release my anger appropriately. I want to find my identity in you. I surrender myself completely to you. Come into my life. Save me. Amen.”
也許你今天需要做這樣一個(gè)禱告：“親愛的上帝，我承認(rèn)我有憤怒的問(wèn)題。我允許別人按下我的按鈕，以至于我回應(yīng)別人之前都不會(huì)思考。我尋求你的幫助。幫助我在做出回應(yīng)前三思。幫助我學(xué)會(huì)適當(dāng)?shù)尼尫盼业膽嵟?。我想要在你里面找到我的身份。我完全降服在你面前。求你進(jìn)入我的生命。拯救我。阿們！
