凱文史派西出柜了，美國(guó)麗人里拒絕同性戀上校的他在戲外卻公開(kāi)宣布自己是個(gè)gay，真正讓人高興的是網(wǎng)上真的會(huì)有人在祝福史派西。無(wú)論是名人效應(yīng)還是社會(huì)進(jìn)步，都足以讓我感動(dòng)，只是突然想起了一個(gè)人，同樣是出柜，卻沒(méi)有得到應(yīng)有的祝福。
Kevin spacey came out of the closet, American beauty refused to gay colonel he announced that he is a gay off-screen, really happy that there will be someone on the Internet in the blessing of spacey. Whether it is celebrity effect or social progress, it is enough to move me. I just suddenly remembered a person who came out of the closet but did not get the due blessing.
在這里就叫她小A吧。我知道沒(méi)有圖你們就不好看了，就放一張沒(méi)有全露臉的吧
當(dāng)然了，我是女的事先聲明一下，認(rèn)識(shí)她純屬偶然，拼房認(rèn)識(shí)的。而且當(dāng)時(shí)看到她第一眼的時(shí)候就被她備注的性取向：女，吸引到了。我不是LES，但佩服大膽承認(rèn)自己是LES的姐妹，于是就主動(dòng)認(rèn)識(shí)她了。
小A的確是個(gè)漂亮而且性格極好的女孩，我們聊了一會(huì)便各自睡覺(jué)，半夜我卻被一陣刻意壓低的抽泣聲驚醒了。我發(fā)現(xiàn)小A不知道為什么獨(dú)自一個(gè)人坐在窗邊哭泣，一開(kāi)始不敢動(dòng)因?yàn)檎娴暮芎ε?，一個(gè)披頭散發(fā)的女生半夜坐在窗邊哭，后來(lái)躺在床上實(shí)在睡不過(guò)去鼓起勇氣和小A一起坐下來(lái)了。
Let's call her little A here. I know you don't look good without a picture, just put one that doesn't show all
The protagonist of the story, just temporarily call her, little A. Of course, I am a woman to declare in advance, know her purely by accident, spell room to know. And the first time I saw her, I was attracted by her sexual orientation: female. I am not LES, but I admire and admit that I am LES's sister, so I took the initiative to know her.
Small A is really A beauty and the disposition is extremely good girl, we chatted for A while then respective sleep, midnight I am however by A burst of sedulously depressed sobs to wake up. I found that little A did not know why she sat alone by the window and cried. At first, she was really afraid. A girl with disheveled hair sat by the window and cried in the middle of the night.
我問(wèn)她，介意我聽(tīng)下你的故事嗎？
小A其實(shí)是一個(gè)人離家出走流落到這個(gè)城市的。并不是因?yàn)檫@座城市有多美，只是因?yàn)閺乃亦l(xiāng)發(fā)出的列車(chē)，終點(diǎn)站是這里。孤零零的城市冷冰冰的夜晚，想起家里人小A總是忍不住流眼淚。
小A很坦然自己LES的事實(shí)。
她說(shuō)她很早就真的自己和別的女孩子不一樣，但也只是心里的一個(gè)小秘密，直到今年年初家里人追問(wèn)自己怎么還不談戀愛(ài)的時(shí)候才鼓起勇氣和爸媽坦白，自己是個(gè)同性戀。
“媽媽倒沒(méi)有說(shuō)什么話，終日以淚洗面。爸爸震怒”，這是她的原話，她爸爸認(rèn)為這是小A在胡鬧，并以死相逼脅迫小A早日擇良人而嫁，當(dāng)然了，是要男的。
I asked her, do you mind if I listen to your story?
Small A is actually A person ran away to the city. Not because the city was beautiful, but because the train from her hometown ended here. Lonely city cold night, think of the family small A always can not help but shed tears.
Little A was quite comfortable with the fact that she was LES.
She said that she was really different from other girls at a very early age, but it was just a little secret in her heart. At the beginning of this year, when the family asked her why she did not fall in love, she got up the courage to confess to her parents that she was gay.
"Mother did not say anything, all day long with tears. "Dad furious," this is her original words, her father thinks this is A little in mischief, and to force force A death as soon as possible to choose A husband and marry, of course, is to be A man.
小A是獨(dú)生子女，脾氣很倔，堅(jiān)持自己的選擇，但是她爸爸也不是省油的燈，鬧了很長(zhǎng)一段時(shí)間的時(shí)候終于商量出了一個(gè)對(duì)策：小A和另一個(gè)男的結(jié)婚，當(dāng)然了這極有可能是無(wú)性婚姻，因?yàn)槟莻€(gè)男的是個(gè)GAY。
起碼是結(jié)了婚，不會(huì)讓她爸媽的臉面都丟盡，小A的想法是這樣的簡(jiǎn)單。
但結(jié)婚當(dāng)晚就出事了。
新郎，不對(duì)，應(yīng)該說(shuō)是那個(gè)gay,竟然把小A奸污了。
原來(lái)這位新郎哥從來(lái)就不是gay，是小A爸爸導(dǎo)演的一出好戲，將自己喜歡的小伙子偽裝成gay接近小A，并且吩咐他結(jié)婚那晚將小A就地正法，生米煮成熟飯之后小A就會(huì)從之前中邪的狀態(tài)中走出來(lái)專(zhuān)心相夫教子。
這是小A爸爸的想法，但是他不知道小A其實(shí)已經(jīng)有了“男朋友”，只是這位男朋友的性別是女，而且最終還是知道了小A被一個(gè)男生奸污的事情，留下了一條微信怒斥小A的不忠和沒(méi)有原則，斷然分手離去。
就這樣，短短一個(gè)月內(nèi)小A失去了爸媽和愛(ài)人的感情，更是被一個(gè)毫無(wú)感情的男人侮辱了自己，羞憤之余便動(dòng)了離家出走的念頭。
Small A is the only child, temper is very stubborn, adhere to their own choice, but her father is not the oil lamp, make A long time of time finally discussed A solution: small A and another man married, of course, this is most likely to be asexual marriage, because the man is A GAY.
At least she got married and won't let her parents lose face. Little A's idea is so simple.
But something happened that night.
The bridegroom, no, should say that gay, actually raped little A.
It turned out that the groom brother was never gay, is A small A dad directed A good play, will be their favorite young man disguised as gay close to A, and told him to marry the night will be small A on the spot, after cooking mature rice from the state of evil before A will come out to concentrate on husband and children.
This is the idea of little A's father, but he does not know little A has already had A "boyfriend", but the sex of this boyfriend is female, and finally know little A was A boy raped things, leaving A WeChat angry scold little A infidelity and no principle, flatly break up and leave.
In this way, in just one month, little A lost her parents and lover's feelings, but also by A man without feelings insulted himself, shame and anger will move the idea of running away from home.
小A爸爸?jǐn)喽ㄅ畠褐皇沁^(guò)家家，鬧夠了就會(huì)回家，也就不管小A了。家境優(yōu)越的小A第一次獨(dú)自面對(duì)這個(gè)物欲橫流的社會(huì)，真真正正感受到了壓力，好不容易找到工作的她卻無(wú)力支付租房的押金，住過(guò)青旅但是討厭魚(yú)龍混雜的環(huán)境，最后只能靠著在同住拼房找人拼快捷酒店，艱難維持。
也許是上天憐憫，也許是小A本身就是一塊金子，入職不久的小A被破格提前轉(zhuǎn)正，還額外的發(fā)了季度獎(jiǎng)金，于是她動(dòng)了念頭想要租一間屬于自己的小天地。
只是小A沒(méi)有意識(shí)到自己姨媽幾個(gè)月沒(méi)來(lái)意味著什么，直到那天沒(méi)有吃早餐在公司暈倒被送到醫(yī)院，她得知了一個(gè)晴天霹靂的消息——小A懷孕了！
這肯定是新婚夜那位新郎哥的杰作了，小A也意識(shí)到了，這是孽種，斷不能留。這是她的第一反應(yīng)，于是那份本該是小A租房的錢(qián)，被她拿去打掉了這個(gè)孩子，面對(duì)生活的種種壓迫，這位勇敢出柜的女孩表現(xiàn)的是如此的果斷和抉擇。
Little A father decided that his daughter was just playing house, make enough will go home, also no matter little A. For the first time, little A from A superior family was facing this materialistic society on her own. She was really feeling the pressure. She was unable to pay the deposit for renting A house after finding A job.
Perhaps it is heaven's mercy, perhaps it is small A itself is A piece of gold, the small A that enters A job before long is broken turn ahead of schedule, still paid quarterly bonus additionally, then she considered to want to rent A small world that belongs to oneself.
Just small A did not realize what his aunt did not come for several months, until that day did not eat breakfast in the company fainted to the hospital, she learned A bolt from the blue news - small A pregnant!
This must be the work of the groom's brother on their wedding night, and little A realized that this is A brat that you can't leave. This was her first reaction, so the money that should have been small A's rent was taken by her to abort the child. Facing all kinds of oppression in life, the brave girl who came out of the closet showed such determination and choice.
小A還在努力工作，也在努力賺錢(qián)。我從這名飽經(jīng)風(fēng)霜的女子嚴(yán)重看不出一絲絲后悔的意思，相反的我感覺(jué)到雖然她對(duì)自己的生活無(wú)可奈何，但是她從未放棄與命運(yùn)抗?fàn)幍淖杂伞?/p>
那晚我坐在小A旁邊，卻一句安慰的話都說(shuō)不出來(lái)，靜靜地聽(tīng)完了她的故事，第二天離開(kāi)的時(shí)候我在她的衣服里塞了幾千塊錢(qián)，算是我對(duì)這位勇敢的女孩一點(diǎn)綿薄的幫助吧。
只是我低估了小A的倔強(qiáng)，就當(dāng)是借她的吧，這樣倔強(qiáng)的她也會(huì)好過(guò)些。
請(qǐng)大家對(duì)身邊的人，特別是那些比較特別的人，多一些包容多一些理解吧。
Little A is still working hard and making money. I could see no trace of regret from this weather-beaten woman. On the contrary, I felt that although she had no choice in her life, she never gave up the freedom to fight against her fate.
That night I sat next to little A, but A word of comfort can not say, quietly listened to her story, the next day when I left her clothes stuffed with thousands of dollars, is my little help to the brave girl.
However, I underestimated the stubbornness of little A, so let's just take her as A loan. Such A stubborn girl will feel better.
Please be more tolerant and understanding of the people around you, especially those who are special.
