問題描述：我的女朋友假期要和幾個朋友（有女的）出去，全部人要睡在同一個房間。我有些擔心，是不是不對？
（這是一個Quora（國外的知乎）上的問答）
李貝琦：她有權(quán)利和你不認識的朋友自由地玩，又不是非得帶你一起。
這也不意味著她要劈腿或者她不愛你呀。
二人世界外部的朋友圈對維持愛情是健康有益的。
只要你不能同行，盯著她，或者她跟你不認識的朋友出去，你就很不安。好像你不信任你的女票哦。
如果是她做過背叛你信任的事，那這段戀情不是早就名存實亡了。
如果這只是你的不安全感，唉，很正常，但它不對。你必須渡過和反省你的個人問題，你的個人情緒反應(yīng)。
試著改變嫉妒心，就像控制火氣一樣。你必須控制，努力。
她和一群朋友一起去旅行沒有什么錯。
問題描述：是不是女生想要找對象的時候，才和男的曖昧？
李貝琦：怎么可能！
有些女人天生愛調(diào)情。
她們喜歡被愛，喜歡讓男生自我感覺良好。喜歡曖昧的性格就跟戒不了毒癮一樣。
反正又不要錢。
問題描述：怎么大家都不來撩我？
李貝琦：對人家眨眼。立竿見影。
翻譯此文是因為文章有趣，想要分享她的思想。另一方面，也可以給想要學習地道英語的人當材料。目前只翻譯becky lee（我翻譯成李貝琦）的回答。希望大家喜歡或者受到啟發(fā)~
My girlfriend is going on holiday with several guys (andgirls) sleeping in in the same room. Am I wrong to feel insecure?
Becky Lee
Becky Lee
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She is allowed to have a free life with friends that youdon't know, and she isn't required to bring you along.
This doesn't mean she is going to cheat on you or doesn'tlove you.
It's healthy for a relationship to maintain groups offriends outside of the relationship.
It seems like you don't trust your girlfriend if you feelfear about not being there to keep an eye on her, or feel uneasy about herbeing around people that you don't know.
If she has done something to betray your trust, therelationship is dead in the water.
If this is your own insecurity, that's normal but itisn't acceptable. It's your personal problem, your personal emotional reactionthat you have to breathe through and reflect upon.
Try to treat jealousy like you would anger. It'ssomething you have to control and work through.
She has done nothing wrong in going on a trip with agroup of her friends.
Do women only flirt with a man when they're looking for a mate?
Becky Lee：
No way!
Some women are just flirts.
A flirtatious personality is addicted to making others feel good while simultaneously making themselves liked by others.
They are complimentary.
How come guys do not approach me?
Becky Lee：
Wink at them sometimes. It works.
原文地址：https://www.quora.com/My-girlfriend-is-going-on-holiday-with-several-guys-and-girls-sleeping-in-in-the-same-room-Am-I-wrong-to-feel-insecure/answer/Becky-Lee-11?srid=uw4wf
https://www.quora.com/Do-women-only-flirt-with-a-man-when-theyre-looking-for-a-mate/answer/Becky-Lee-11?srid=uw4wf
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