停止?jié)M足別人的期待，因為這是你自殺的唯一方式。你在這里不是要滿足別人的期待的，而且也沒有任何人要來滿足你的期待，不要成為別人期待的受害者，也不要讓任何人成為你的期待的受害者，這就是我所說的個體性。
尊敬你自己的個體性，并且尊敬別人的個體性。不要去妨礙別人的生活，也不要允許任何人來妨礙你的生活。唯有如此，有一天你才會成長至靈性的。
否則，有百分之九十九的人就只是在自殺，他們的生命除了是慢性自殺，其他一無所是。滿足這個期待, 滿足那個….有時候它是父親的期待, 有時候它是母親的期待，有時候它是太太的，先生的，然后小孩的期待——他們?nèi)加兴诖?。然后是社會，傳教士，政客?/p>
我們身邊的每個人人都在期待。然后可憐的你在這里，一個可憐的人——而整個世界都在期待你做這個做那個。而你無法滿足他們所有的期望，因為他們是矛盾的。
在滿足每個人的期待的過程中，你已經(jīng)發(fā)了瘋, 然而你并沒有滿足哪個人的期待。沒有人開心。你迷失了，浪費了，但是沒有人開心。那些無法對自己感到開心的人是無法開心的。無論你做什么，他們總是會找出方法對你不開心，因為他們開心不起來。
幸?？鞓肥且婚T人們必須去學習的藝術(shù)。它與你的作為或不作為無關。與其去討好，不如學習幸?？鞓返乃囆g(shù)。
Stop fulfilling expectations of others, because that is the only way you can commit suicide. You are not here to fulfill anybody's expectations and nobody else is here to fulfill your expectations. Never become a victim of others' expectations and don't make anybody a victim of your expectations.
This is what I call individuality. Respect your own individuality and respect others' individuality. Never interfere in anybody's life and don't allow anybody to interfere in your life. Only then one day you can grow into spirituality.
Otherwise, ninety-nine percent of people simply commit suicide. Their whole life is nothing but a slow suicide. Fulfilling this expectation, that expectation...some day it was the father, some day it was the mother, some day it was the wife, husband, then come children - they also expect. Then the society, the priest and the politician.
All around everybody is expecting. And poor you there, just a poor human being - and the whole world expecting you to do this and that. And you can't fulfill all of their expectations, because they are contradictory.
You have gone mad fulfilling everybody's expectations. And you have not fulfilled anybody's. Nobody is happy. You are lost, wasted, and nobody is happy. People who are not happy with themselves cannot be happy. Whatsoever you do, they will find ways to be unhappy with you, because they cannot be happy.
Happiness is an art that one has to learn. It has nothing to do with your doing or not doing. Instead of pleasing, learn the art of happiness.
