盡早認(rèn)清現(xiàn)實(shí)，調(diào)整步伐
一個(gè)人說什么不重要，重要的還是他/她到底最后是什么選擇的，每一個(gè)選擇都代表了一種模式，根本沒有“如果。。。我就。。?！被蛘摺翱上М?dāng)時(shí)沒有。。?！边@種命題，真正讓歷史長(zhǎng)河流動(dòng)的，不是遲疑不是另外一種抉擇，而是付諸行動(dòng)的那個(gè)抉擇。
除了不斷地購(gòu)買東西滿足欲望，還可以不斷地扔?xùn)|西滿足欲望，實(shí)際上都是為了改變或者刺激。我很喜歡第二種，主要原因是窮。
Believing in religion makes a easier life. Thus people don't have to explore their own world view, and the reason why they should believe it. No need to suffer anymore because they are told what to believe and what to do, and the reason is "God says it". So the agnostic or the athiest who has religious parents and being taught religion since young is very brave. They choose to live in their own style. Rather than merely exist, they live. But I am good too. Even born in a non-religious family, I have explored and am always exploring the religions and the non-religions. I think believing or not, or believing in what you create by yourself really matters a lot in everyday life. It decides your mindset, your behavior, your emotions.
That is good, people believing in religion. Easy life, so what. I don't judge them. Although I don't have the whole package, meaning the mind and the life style, I truly adore them.?
Love is such an illusion, strong and intense and constant and unstoppable. On one hand, I'm sick of intimacy, on the other hand, I really want to know what will happen next and next and next, as if it's someone's life, not mine nevertheless. It seems to me merely a novel. Whether it ends, or it lasts, its core has never changed-- a story. I'm a story collector, so when I tell others about this, I will say "she".
Don't try to be someone you are not. Sexy or plain, attractive or dull, interesting or boring, be comfortable with it.
I want a café without music.
要失望也只對(duì)自己失望，對(duì)別人有什么好失望的呢。你又不能控制外部，試圖控制都是妄想。
我是很輕的，承受不了物質(zhì)和精神的負(fù)累，承受不了積極向上的態(tài)度。我但愿能看到“事物本身的神圣性”。
發(fā)現(xiàn)女人老了以后和男人外表上幾乎是一樣的，看不出性別差異。所以今天看到一個(gè)笑得很燦爛的、滿頭銀色長(zhǎng)發(fā)的老婦人，眼前一亮。我也跟著她笑了。
睡眠和專注的重要性。
Now I realized I always want sth on my mind, in order to forget the external anxiety. Sometimes it's God sometimes a boy sometimes a piece of music.
The relationship with the world can affect my energy. To truly accept everyone, their differences, and to learn from them, means a lot to me. The interaction is amazing.
大提琴是一種節(jié)奏的把控，每一步都是一樣的步速，不疾不徐，就會(huì)有流水的自然感覺出來。難怪Rostropovich鄙視改變節(jié)奏去拉巴赫的大無，勻速才是對(duì)人生最好的注解。
終于知道為什么這么多人信仰神靈了，因?yàn)橹挥兴粫?huì)變，不存在變化無常的痛苦，這種寄托是最放心的。
人累的時(shí)候就會(huì)對(duì)一切產(chǎn)生懷疑，所以累的時(shí)候不要逼自己、休息吧。
一只細(xì)小的螞蟻??，爬兩下，就豎起小翅膀，屏息一秒，往后一個(gè)跳躍。不知道它是不是在訓(xùn)練自己飛翔。我想起寫昆蟲記的家伙來，心里一定是非常非常愛這個(gè)世界，才能這樣細(xì)心地觀察世界。我也想起上帝，突然鼻子一酸，差一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)就相信了造物主，但是又立即擺到達(dá)爾文的一邊。
自己當(dāng)自己的role model，不用模仿別人。
為什么不接受所有的現(xiàn)實(shí)呢？不完全的接受就沒有完全的自由。比自由選擇怎么去反應(yīng)外界更好的是：根本就不反應(yīng)。爛熟于心。沒有對(duì)過去的不斷回憶，沒有對(duì)未來什么都沒發(fā)生的焦慮，才能創(chuàng)造每一個(gè)鮮活的現(xiàn)在。
It amazes me that you will think differently when wearing differently.?
如果你不覺得累、勞頓、孤獨(dú)，就不要拿別人的語氣說自己“折騰”。突破別人的眼睛，拿掉這層紗網(wǎng)，不要拿別人的價(jià)值觀過濾自己的行為。
How about, follow my impulse, and don't think about the objective and the consequences at all!
