people tend to be not aware of their unconscious processing having effect on their judgement.#Conversation with Richard Nisbett
we are not aware of how good our psychological immune system is ,we take it for granted that would destroy our life if we break up or we lost our relatives .

and we assume that we will be thrilled if we win the lottery.

** however,this kind of mood can't last for a long time**

a thing that you thought very important at that particular moment,may be a little thing for you in a few years.

**###why: **

Dissonance reduction,
our psychological immune system

###for example:

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###my example:

1somebody thought he will be thrilled if he have a girlfriend ,how ever,this mood of exictmet didn't last for a long time

2if I won 2 millions last year in the stock market ,so TM what?what is good for you is to make a little progress year by year.

3

中國有句話：轟轟烈烈的事不能長久，平平淡淡才是真。在時(shí)間面前，大多數(shù)人都是loser.

#interview illusion

**You can imagine that information
that you've experienced firsthand seems like it's more relevant to the decisions that you
make.

Both of you were searching your memory for confirming evidence.
**