最近開(kāi)始讀王爾德的《溫夫人的扇子》，剛開(kāi)場(chǎng)就讓人若有所思。

如果女性沒(méi)有自我意識(shí)并加以調(diào)整的話(huà)，地位和處境不會(huì)有任何改變，古今中外皆如此。

比如：

1、"Our husbands would forget we even existed if we didn't nag them from time to time, just to remind them that we have a perfect legal right to do SO."

大致意思是：如果我們不經(jīng)常嘮叨他們，我們的丈夫甚至?xí)浳覀兊拇嬖凇?/p>

2、"It's a strange thing about the rather old-fashionedütitat) game of marriage,

said Lord Darlington,"that though nowadays the wives hold the best cards, most of the time they still lose the game."

大致意思是：妻子們擁有最好的牌，大多數(shù)時(shí)候他們還是輸游戲。"

3、"Ah! You are starting to want to reform me. It is a dangerous thing to reform any one, Lady Windermere,"said Lord Darlington.

大致意思是：改造任何人都是一件危險(xiǎn)的事。