很多時(shí)候，有一些人就像一個(gè)影子，活在你的腦海畫面里，不忍心酸。就好像，畫好了精致的妝容，剛準(zhǔn)備要出門，卻突然下起了大雨。又好像剛買到的新的口味的棒棒糖，剛舔了一口就掉在了地上。又好像那年夏天我在海邊吃過的冰激凌，剛撕開包裝就融化在了胸口上弄臟了新的裙子。有些人，就是從來都不會讓你失望。

Many

times, some people are like a shadow, living in your mind and not

feeling sad. It’s like drawing a delicate makeup, just getting ready to

go out, but suddenly it started to rain. It seems that the new taste of

the lollipop that I just bought has just dropped a bit and fell to the

ground. It was also like the ice cream that I had eaten at the beach

that summer. I just melted the package and melted it on my chest to

stain the new skirt. Some people just never let you down

我還記得很多年之前我住在一個(gè)公寓里，以前跟渣男吵架我都會把渣男趕出去然后渣男摔門滾出去以后我就會自己大哭有時(shí)候就會哭一整個(gè)下午的樣子。然后有一次，隔壁的小姑娘，她聽到了我哭然后敲門問我怎么樣了。我說我還好。都很好。大概開門跟她聊了幾句，她說她的那個(gè)男朋友跟她吵架就是經(jīng)常因?yàn)樗芭训囊粋€(gè)電話就消失了就離開她那樣子，然后說她男朋友的前女友還打電話給他讓他半夜十二點(diǎn)去幫忙修水龍頭之類的事，他就會立刻去。又很巧合的是，當(dāng)天下午，女孩子又哭又鬧聲音很大，男孩子好像還動手打她，只聽到女孩子哭的很慘，哭著說你為什么總是這樣，她都跟你分手了你還要去見她之類的。整個(gè)公寓一共是六戶人家，整個(gè)走廊都能聽到他們吵鬧的樣子，等我開門出來的時(shí)候，我看到整個(gè)走廊的情侶們都出來都站在她門口，我想去安慰她但是我沒有。我不知道該怎么辦，因?yàn)槟菚r(shí)候我也是剛分手。我只是覺得，渣男就是渣男，離開沒理由。

I

still remember that I lived in an apartment. Before I quarreled with

the scum, I would drive the scum male out and then the scum man would

slam the door and then I would cry myself and sometimes I would cry for

the whole afternoon. Then, once, the little girl next door, she heard me

crying and knocked on the door to ask me how. I said that I am fine.

all good. I probably opened the door and talked to her. She said that

her boyfriend’s quarrel with her was often because her ex-girlfriend’s

phone disappeared and left her. It’s coincidental that the girl cried

again that afternoon. It’s very loud, the boy seems to be hitting her,

only to hear the girl crying very badly, crying and saying why you

always do this, she broke up with you, you have to go see her, the whole

The apartment is a total of six households. The entire corridor can

hear them noisy. When I open the door, I see the couples in the corridor

coming out at her door. I want to comfort her but I don't. I don't know

what to do, because I just broke up at that time. I just think that the

scum man is a scum man, there is no reason to leave.

以前公司里也是總有那么幾個(gè)小伙子，穿的體面，嘴巴又甜，總會哄女孩子，有時(shí)候會被人當(dāng)成紳士，實(shí)際上眉目間一臉都是大寫的花心渣男。之前滑板群里已經(jīng)見識過多位了，表面暖男，實(shí)際上都是些只要是女孩子，就要去給女孩子暖一下的選手，大概都是些異地戀然后又身邊留那么幾位女閨蜜之類甚至可以直接說是騙炮的火包友。也不知道現(xiàn)在大家都是怎么對待愛情的，咱也不知道，咱也不敢問啊。

In

the past, there were always a few young men in the company. They were

decent and sweet, and they always licked girls. Sometimes they were

treated as gentlemen. In fact, they all had a big-faced scum. Before the

skateboarding group has seen a lot of people, the surface is warm,

actually, as long as they are girls, they have to go to the girls to

warm up the players, probably some distant love and then stay a few

women A girlfriend or the like can even be said to be a fire-fighting

friend of a scam. I don’t know how everyone treats love now, I don’t

know, I don’t dare to ask.

還有一種渣男，也是有一顆心懷天下的心，想要給全世界女孩子幸福而已。就像是經(jīng)常會把雖然我結(jié)婚了但是絲毫影響不了我們之間的關(guān)系這樣的話掛在嘴邊。然而實(shí)際上卻忘記了那個(gè)給他生兒子的女人，又要幫他還房貸，還要一心一意伺候他一家，還在為他去操心。而他就不一樣了，指不定內(nèi)心惦記著哪個(gè)前女友。

There

is also a kind of scum male, who also has a heart that embraces the

world and wants to give happiness to girls all over the world. It’s like

saying that although I am married but can’t influence the relationship

between us, I’m talking about it. However, he actually forgot the woman

who gave him a son, and he had to help him with his mortgage. He also

had to serve his family with one heart and one mind, and he was still

worried about him. And he is not the same, and may not remember which

ex-girlfriend.

七夕情人節(jié)

Love

我忽然又想起了我以前的另一個(gè)同事，他以前在小的單位上班時(shí)候談的對象，去見對方父母，女方總會嫌棄他，瞧不起他。后來他母親托關(guān)系把他安排在事業(yè)單位上班，這下就厲害了，他跟我形容的說那女方爸媽態(tài)度立刻就不一樣了，恨不得立刻讓他女兒跟他上床一樣，然后順勢結(jié)婚那種。不過他也很直白的說，那等貨色老子還沒興趣根本不想上呢。后來也當(dāng)然是分手結(jié)局。好像聽說是后來換了四五個(gè)對象都分手了。

I

suddenly remembered another colleague of mine. He used to talk to the

other parents when he was working in a small unit. The woman always

disliked him and looked down on him. Later, his mother asked him to

arrange for him to work in a business unit. This is very powerful. He

described to me that the attitude of the woman’s parents was immediately

different. I wished that his daughter would immediately go to bed with

him, and then he would marry him. Kind. However, he also said very

straightforwardly that he was not interested in the goods and did not

want to go on. Later, of course, it was a breakup. It seems that I heard

that it was changed after four or five objects were changed.

之前也有人問我求助，問我應(yīng)該怎么辦。一個(gè)大男人，追了一個(gè)女生三個(gè)月不到，為了弄清楚女生心里有沒有他，就拜托我給一個(gè)方案。我安排好了所有，去幫忙挑禮物，我精心準(zhǔn)備一星期也幫忙查到了對方所有的大概喜好，還幫他搞了一場簡約求愛的儀式，我想，女生都是在乎這些的。一段愛情的開始必須是從男生的一句：我喜歡你，你愿意做我女朋友嗎？開始的，但是誰知道后來又出現(xiàn)一個(gè)插曲。男生跟我說，全程都按照我給出的計(jì)劃和步驟然后成功約到了女神，結(jié)果女神睡了他，拿走了禮物。后來竟然就要分手。我后來跟那個(gè)人說，忘了她，換下一位。我能怎么辦？我只是能給出一個(gè)大概的好的方法，但是這個(gè)具體事后我可就沒辦法去控制了。畢竟我又不是很了解你要的女神究竟是人是鬼。大家也可以想一下，倘若一個(gè)真正坦蕩又負(fù)責(zé)任的男孩子，我說的是真正的單身青年，不是那種結(jié)婚了在外面裝單身那種。如果是真正內(nèi)心坦蕩的人，想必一定也會遇到跟自己一個(gè)內(nèi)心坦蕩正經(jīng)又正直的女孩子吧。就根本不會出現(xiàn)像微博上那些相親被騙的沙雕故事了。

愛情本身是信任的基礎(chǔ)，基礎(chǔ)之上是彼此的真誠。也希望大家日后都能夠遇到一個(gè)滿眼都是你，真心愿意為你付出的人。希望這個(gè)七夕，有你也有他。

Someone

asked me for help before and asked what should I do. A big man, chasing

a girl for less than three months, in order to find out if there is a

girl in his heart, please ask me for a plan. I arranged everything, to

help pick the gift, I carefully prepared for a week, also helped to find

out all the other people's preferences, and also helped him with a

simple courtship ceremony, I think, girls are concerned about these. The

beginning of a love must be from the boy's sentence: I like you, are

you willing to be my girlfriend? At the beginning, but who knows that

there is an episode later. The boy told me that the whole process was

followed by the plan and steps I gave and then successfully reached the

goddess. As a result, the goddess slept him and took the gift. Later, I

was about to break up. I later told the person, forgot her, and replaced

one. what can I do? I can only give you a good idea, but after this

specific thing, I can't control it. After all, I don’t know very well

whether the goddess you want is a ghost or a ghost. You can also think

about it. If a truly honest and responsible boy, I am talking about a

true single youth, not the kind of married outside. Single type. If you

are truly open-minded, you must also meet a girl who is honest and

upright with himself. There will be no sand sculpture stories like those

on Weibo who have been deceived.

Love

itself is the foundation of trust, based on the sincerity of each

other. I also hope that everyone will be able to meet someone who is

full of you and willing to pay for you in the future. I hope that this

Tanabata, you have him too.