松弛感的人，她的掌控欲低于她的掌控力 People with a sense of looseness there is often a commonality , that is her desire to be in control is lower than her control .

To the extreme , is a kind of banishment of the mind .

具有松弛感的人往往有一個(gè)共性：

即她的掌控欲低于她的掌控力。

往極致說(shuō)就是有一種謫仙的心態(tài)。

In everything she does , she tries her best to push for the good , but she knows in her heart , no matter how this thing turns out , she didn ' t care that much .

做每件事時(shí)，她都盡心盡力往好的方向推進(jìn)。但是她心里很清楚這件事情無(wú)論結(jié)果如何，她都沒(méi)那么在意。

She likes to be a bystander , an outsider .她非常喜歡做一個(gè)旁觀者、一個(gè)事外人。