At the age of 12 began to contact the word "marriage", just know this word is something about growing up , was just too lazy to think so much!But all is not quite like that, because if someone mention one and another want to get married,( it was a game called "mom and dad"at that time),we will laugh at one another, or there will be an inexplicable feeling of shy...
十二三歲的時(shí)候開始認(rèn)識(shí)‘婚姻’這個(gè)詞，那個(gè)時(shí)候只知道結(jié)婚是長(zhǎng)大以后的事，那時(shí)才懶得想那么多呢！其實(shí)也不完全是這樣，因?yàn)檎l如果提到誰跟誰要結(jié)婚（那個(gè)年代有種叫作‘爸爸媽媽’的游戲），都會(huì)如約的相視笑一笑，或者說會(huì)有一種莫名的羞澀感...
At the age of puberty, witnessed his brother's marriage, to the word "marriage" is not so miraculous.Understand that time is: marriage is boring the rest of your life to start...
十七八歲了，見證過兄長(zhǎng)的婚姻，開始對(duì)‘婚姻’這個(gè)詞也并不那么陌生。那個(gè)時(shí)候的理解就是：結(jié)婚是無聊的下半輩子的開端...
Why is there such a feeling?There must be a story about my brothers before getting married.(too long story here omit eighty thousand words, if you want to know the details, reducible in-law...).To sum up, ?they are totally changed after marriage.Just at the age of my rebellion that time, their marriage for me is a very thankfully thing.Get married before they like to interfere me ?, no too long hair, shoes don't too bright, and so on some little things, a lot of things not only to the parents, still have to prevent them!So they get married for me it's ?just like a sense less a natural enemies...
為什么會(huì)有這樣的感觸呢？那還得從我兄長(zhǎng)們結(jié)婚以前講起。（故事太長(zhǎng)此處省略八萬字，若想細(xì)知，可約促膝長(zhǎng)談...）總而言之，婚后婚前他們都判若兩人。正好趕在我叛逆的那個(gè)年紀(jì)，覺得他們的成家對(duì)我來說是一件非常值得慶幸的事情。結(jié)婚之前他們總愛干預(yù)我的事情，頭發(fā)不能留太長(zhǎng)，鞋子不要擦太亮等等些小事，好多事情不僅要防著爸媽，還得防著他們呢！所以他們結(jié)婚會(huì)有少了一種天敵的感覺...
Until now, enter society there are one or two years.Some classmates or friends ?sporadic has walked into the marriage hall, So that the word "marriage" is gradually approaching to me.Face to this solemn and simple word, I don't think it's a natural thing!Perhaps there is no fate or maybe I'm not ready, or something for this matter with this don't need to do any preparation.Maybe i should seek for help from you experienced guys .What ?advice will ?you give to me ?
而如今，自己步入社會(huì)也有一兩年了，身邊的同學(xué)、朋友也零星的有走進(jìn)婚姻殿堂的，‘婚姻’這個(gè)詞也逐漸向我逼近，能否坦然面對(duì)這個(gè)莊嚴(yán)而簡(jiǎn)單的詞，我還沒能確定呢！也許傳統(tǒng)的‘緣分’這個(gè)詞還沒到，也許我還沒準(zhǔn)備好，又或許這事跟本不需做任何準(zhǔn)備，是不是該問問你們，你們這些過來人，會(huì)給我怎樣的建議呢？
Ah, no more words, whatever it is, the life so tired, free present ?first
哎，不說了，管他呢，人生這么累，自由當(dāng)下先
