A young man can decide a likely spouse on his own and then ask his parents to arrange the marriage negotiations, or the young man parents may make the choice of a spouse, giving the child little to say in the selection.In theory, a girl may veto the spouse her parents have chosen.

男子大部分還是喜歡父母喜歡的，女生堅持自己喜歡的。如果不是，那就是女生受傷了，不想再受傷了所以選擇的父母喜歡的。